So What's Your "Real" Reasons For PE
I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. I thought I knew why I wanted to PE (or at least the front I was putting on to myself). But the more and more I have been reflecting on it in my workouts, the more I realize my real reason.
So I thought it would be a good thread for all of us to write why we are really doing PE, especially the newbies (like me). I’ve learned through business ventures that it is best to have your goals and your reason for doing what you want to do in writing.
Yes, I’m insecure about my size. I never understand why as I do not put myself into a situation to be viewed by other guys. I just know I’m “below” average (not by much, but being below average in anything has never been acceptable to me).
But where I want it most is for my wife.
I’m not the most in shape person. My job limits my physical activity, and an injury has limited my ability to exercise a lot. I’m getting through the injury and hoping to resume cardio workouts as well as resistance training after the new year. I need to lose around 30 lbs of fat and put on some muscle, and I know I can do it.
But what I want for my wife is the total package, so to speak. I want her to be sexually attracted to me physically, not just emotionally. I believe that will come from three forms:
1. A better body, leaner, with some muscle. Something a lot better than what I currently have.
2. A bigger dick flaccid, something to get my wife thinking about sex with me.
3. A bigger, firmer erection, similar to what others have said here (when your lover’s eyes roll back into their head on entry).
My wife and I have a good relationship, but we have young kids. I work full-time, she’s a stay at home mom. Her day can be fairly exhausting chasing around the kids. We are expecting our third. Just previous to finding this out, our sex life was pretty good for a couple with two kids under 3 (having sex 3-4 times a week).
Usually after having a kid it takes my wife 3-4 months to have her hormones balance out and get into a routine of rest and chasing the kids.
My 1 year goal is to gain as much as possible. I measure late last week and was 5” NBPEL and just under 5” in MSEG.
I would like to gain at least 1” in length and get over 5” in girth by that time. I believe that doing that will give my wife a lot more pleasure (all things equal I know she’d prefer bigger).
First Goal: 6” x 5”
Second Goal: 6.5” by 5.25”
Third Goal: 7”x by 5.5”
Fourth Goal: 7.5” x 5.5”
Dream Goal: 8” x 6”
2.5” in length gain is a bit intimidating to me, but I’m determined to get there. I’m gaining girth great already (up nearly .25” in just two weeks) so I hope my length starts coming around.
Of course, I want to lose about 30lbs of fat and put on a solid muscle base. I don’t care about being body-builder type physique, but when my wife looks at me, I want her to think that I’m physically sexy to her.
So those are my reasons and goals. Newbies and vets, put yours in here two. Everyone who writes here should bookmark this post to refer to later, to keep us motivated and keep us from quitting.
Start: BPEL: 5.25" EG: ~4.5"
Current: BPEL: ~ 6.75" MSEG: ~4.75" BG: 4.825" BPFSL: 7"
Initial Goal: NBPEL: 7" EG: 5" Long Term Goal: 7.5" x 5.25-5.50"