So that's what it sounds like!
I was with someone new, and I got a very genuine and sincere “you have a very nice ‘member’ here” as she stroked my cock. I’ve become accustomed to hearing abbbbbsolutely nothing ever, for 20 years, so this kind of unprompted response was like a jolt of vindication to the work I’ve done.
It’s been 3 years of work, and I’m finally into the land of average I think, and this was a refreshing and awesome thing to hear! Just wanted to share, and again say thanks to Thunders.