So excited to find this forum
It’s hard to know where to begin but the size issue everyone says doesn’t matter, well i hate to say it but it does. If not to the women I have been with it does to my self esteem. Unlike you hung dudes I was blessed with a standard issue member maybe sllightly thicker than average but lacking in length. I think the whole problem started with an innevertent comment during my first sexual experience. My girlfriend at age 16 had already had her cherry picked by a short guy with a 8” tool and being used to this she was surprised at my 6’ stature and only 6” length. The comment was innocent but it reeked havoc on my self esteem as a man.
I am now 49 with a failed marraige of 25 years and am dating the love of my life for a year. She is absolutely thrilled with our sex life aways acheiving orgasm at every session which is 6-10 times a week. She has no complaints and is aware of the comment my first girlfriend made. She is constatntly reassurng me that any bigger won’t fit and is totally unnecessary. For me though I can’t escape the desire of wanting at least a 7” penis. You have no idea how this can take over your life. I get depressed daily about it and I know what you guys will say ‘Get a life and get on with it”.
I must say this type of obsession creeps into every part of my life. I keep checking guys bulges to see how endowed they are and ask the girlfriend of her past loves. The one thing that helps is that she told me of a previous lover that was 6’4” and hung like a mouse and he had the best attitude about it. He would make jokes and show it off at every oppourtunity. I can’t relate. I won’t even show off my normal penis size.
I have been reading all the forums with great interest and have started a PE program on the sly. I will post some pics as soon as possible and I hope you guys can suggest any helpful hints. All this will be most whole heartedly appreciated.
Cheers to all.