Smaller than average

I’ve been reading this site for a while and registered when the server let me, but I noticed something here. I’m very surprised that the majority of the people here who actively PE already have a fairly large penis! And here I am sitting with a 5.5X4 and just want to gain to where some of you guys are starting from. You lucky bastards lol. I just started the newbie routine and am reading up on the more technical stuff now. Are there many others that are coming from a similar size?

I’ve noticed that there is a good number of members who are 5-6 inches, including me but of course there is the 7.5-8 guys who wants to have a monster dick, no problem it’s a personal choice to have more, also good for the self esteem and confidence

Your far from alone, remember guys that are huge are more likely to post pics on the internet, so that is all we end up seeing and we end up thinking everyone is larger then us. I started at 5,5 x 4.0 just like you, and man I sure know you feel, my life has really ended up sucking because of this and it sure is empowering to know I can do something about it. Definitely read all you can, PE is very much like surfing as an analogy, you have to discover that sweet spot right between under-training and over-training. Listening to your PI’s is the key to this, Erection Quality going up not down is one of the main factors in knowing your on the right track. Its been a very long journey for me with little results and that was because I did not get this very concept and would get very excited about any tiny increase and then immediately over train and lose all the gain. Amazing how I would do this again and again even though it did not work and never will work and I see so many guys go on and on about the more is better philosophy on here, more is only better when your body has adapted to where you are now and only a little bit more is required to keep you in the zone of PE growth. This is so key, the other thought is taking supplements so your body has the natural resources to build you up and heal faster, I sure hope this helps you, it has only been fairly recently that I have been experiencing real and dramatic growth, don’t fall into the over-training or under-training trap, take very detailed notes of exactly what you are doing.

Yeah I’m one of those average guys that feels small, rather than a small guy shooting to be average. I know that it’s somewhat hypocritical, but I actually quite enjoy partners with all variety of shapes and sizes of dicks, some far far smaller than yours. For me however I just feel the need to hit these new areas.

Thanks for that response! I’m in a weird position right now. In highschool I was always ashamed of my size and when a girl started spreading around I was small I always laughed it off and denied it. It never bothered me THAT much though since my senior year I got a girl that I was able to give multiple orgasms to. It’s that old saying, “it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean!” I always told myself that anyways.

Well we ended up getting married and the sex was great! Well 3 years and 1 son later we are divorced. Now I’m starting to get self conscious again since I’m in the dating world now and not all girls can be like my ex who was super easy to please.

Really glad there is a place like this where I can learn to fix this myself and where I can talk about it!

Also I have a question. I have been this size since I was 13-14 (I am now 24) . Do you think a hormone issue could be a cause in lack of further growth? I started lifting weights around freshman year so I always wondered if that is what set me back.

I don’t think so, lifting weights makes your body produce more hormones, and about the penis growth some say it stop to grow at age of 16 not 18 or 21 like your height but it’s not a rule everybody is different so it may variate from person to person

I agree with sckail, Lifting weights reduces your fat pad and definitely works to the benefit of making your penis appear larger not smaller at the bare minimum. But I would think it would help with growing.

I started small and am now average. I know I was small at the time especially nbp of 4 inches visually I dint like it. Be patient stick with your goals and watch it grow. Good luck.

Do a search for Yguy’s progress. He was a huge inspiration for me and a lot of others back in the day.

Hi, I am pretty average too, and I have joined recently too.
Totally agree with your point, most of the people here already have one eyed monsters of 7inches plus length, don’t know why they want their pet snakes :p but I guess it is a personal choice

I have not started P.E yet, but will very soon, I am so thankful for finding this site, PE does seem genuine. I am reading all the forum I can, so that I don’t damage myself, and set the process right.

Best of luck to you too.

I started a shade under average (4.5”) and have grown to be average now, mostly through manual stretching and jelqing. Stay consistent and work hard bro.

I started at 5.5” x 4.5”. Not far off. I peaked at 6 7/8” x 5 1/4”. Went from ok to more than ok. :) Had a few years off, lost some, and am now gaining it back!!

You will gain, no doubt. Remember though, this isn’t a horse race. Perseverance pays dividends.

Thank you everyone for the replys! I am happy to see I’m not alone in this.

I started at about 4.5 NBPEL and 4.4 EG. I am currently 5 BPEL and 4.9 EG. You can add a little over 1” to get my BP measurements.

Attherange, you did not mention whether your measurements are BP or NBP.

Somehow, I believe genetics set us back and there is nothing we did that caused our dicks not to grow beyond average. The only mistake we made was not learning about PE earliy enough. In my case I waited over 50 years. Luckily, I found my wife who was more interested in the whole person rather than just one body part. Unless you separated because of your average dick size, you found one too. So you see, they are out there.

I truly understand the emasculating effect a small dick can have on your ego, but you need to keep in mind that under passionate circumstances, erection size is not that important to your partner. Love, compassion and tenderness are much more important. Isn’t this what attracted your wife to you in the beginning? 50% of the guys out there are average or below so the odds that the women out there are mostly size queens is not that great.

Don’t let your size deter you for going for the gold ring, if you are rejected because of your size, than that’s her loss.