Size Performance

I’d have to say the ENDURANCE is key. I’d rather have a smaller unit with lots of endurance, then a BIG unit that can only last 5 minutes. :)

Wow, I really appreciate everyone’s advice/input. Thanks a lot guys! :)

Yet another pathetic example of internet marketing.

Yeah, that post seemed a little suspect

Part of the reason 7.5 might have been bad is because it might have been to much pressure on her cervix. I am currently at 7 inches, I just touch her cervix. She has told me that I have to be careful about getting much longer because it will hurt her. Personally I think as we continue to have sex she will become more accustomed to a bit more length, at least I hope that is true, as I am shooting for 7.5 x 6.

I am shooting for not being average :(

Must have patience.

I’d have to say 7.5 X 6 sounds like a great target, and certainly above average.

This is true - to an extent. No-one wants to be a three-thrust wonder, obviously. But the most overrated thing in the world is a man’s ability to fuck forever and a day without ejaculating. How this came to be seen as some sort of Holy Grail of sexual performance, I don’t know. Is premature ejaculation really so common that this is just a ‘grass is always greener’ effect?

True to a point. I started on the happy side of normal sized and have had women react to me like that all the way back to my teen years. But I did notice a marked change in reaction with partners that got to try out my before and after dicks.

However: Way to many guys seem to think that having a big one is a magic substitute for mad skillz. It is not. The bigger you are (past normal sized) the more skill you need to have. With new partners i am used to spending hours on fourplay and more hours on oral (with increasing numbers of fingers) before penitration is an option. And even then one wrong move with a chubby that is past her normal limit means an injured hoo-ha and no more sex.

What about having average-sized girth though? If a girl has had above-average girth with an excellent partner, I’m sure there’s no substitute for that.

It’s not substitute, all else being equal. And even if it is no substitute, what are you going to do? Not have sex with her? Do you not take a girl out to dinner when she has been to a much nicer dinner before? No, you do it anyway and enjoy yourself.

No. My goal is to be her best chef ever :)

It’s not substitute, meaning, “Of course you won’t compare, dude, so just don’t worry about it”?

My overall point is don’t worry about it. It’s a pointless exercise to spend a lot of time thinking about this kind of stuff. Especially when you’re average. If you were well below average and lacked any kind of skill, then I would be worried.

Dude, you’re going down the rabbit hole that I obsessed about until I fell down the fisting hole— once you grok that with care and patience you can fistfuck most women, your own girth becomes less an issue.

But as ‘ru noted, you need more skillz the more extreme your playground— fisting or big dicks, you need to handle dangerous instrumentalities with great care.

It’s good to see many members focusing on other aspects of their relationships, like romance, foreplay, skill, and love making techniques. Those are obviously more important to a lady, and will add to her pleasure more than anything. As far as penis size, because women’s vaginas vary like mens penises, there’s not one perfect penis that all women crave, nor can they agree on. I have seen polls that suggest sizes that the median lady would prefer, but then again, that means there are other women that have different size preferences. It is what it is. If my penis is longer than average, it just gives me more flexibility to either go in part way, moving the head within the first 4 inches where the vaginal nerves are most sensitive, or going in deep to give her a different sensation of fullness. As far as girth, flexibility is also possible. My girth is thicker at the base, so if I’m only inserting within the first 4 inches, she’s feeling one girth size, and when I push it all the way in, and make smaller movements, she’s feeling more thickness that’s placing more pressure on the first 4 inches of her side walls. I don’t necessary believe that she prefers one technique or the other; she likes them all. It’s just nice to be able to change it up.