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Size and Getting Off

Size and Getting Off

So, I’ve been having issues with getting off when I’m with my girl friend. I’m about normal size, around 6’ erect, while it’s nothing huge, I’ve come to terms with it, and done plenty of research, and consider myself quite skilled with the fingers now. But whenever my ex would go down on me (hands or mouth) should would never get me off, and I literally mean never, in 16 months she didn’t get me off once! Now she was very new to everything, aka, virgin in every respect, and would usually give up on it after like 5 minutes. So I figured it was just her lack of effort that was the problem. But I’ve got a new girl friend now, and last night she went down on me for like 15min and still nothing. It felt great, but I still didn’t finish. I have no problem getting off during sex, but for some reason whenever it comes to a hand job or blow job I get nothing. I probably masturbate 3-5 times a week, with porn, would that have something to do with it, or could it have anything to do with size, and is there any way to “solve” the problem?

It’s a strange world indeed. I’m the opposite to you, in that I can only get off on sex if I have had prolonged oral beforehand! I don’t think this is anything to do with size. There have been many posters on here who have said, like you, that they don’t get off on oral.

Hello,

Ask your girlfriend to go a bit rough on you. I mean when she blows you ask her not to be very gentle, go faster, use her hands with a tighter grip.

Different people react differently to sexual stimulus. Maybe you are too gentle and need to do it a bit more roughly. I do not mean savagely. (I feel sorry that I cannot define what I mean by rough sex.)

Take care,
Padawan

P.S: Please keep us updated with your progress. Thanks!


I have decided whatever I do I will move forward in life

Originally Posted by padawan

Ask your girlfriend to go a bit rough on you. faster, use her hands with a tighter grip.

I agree with padawan, she should jack you off faster with her hands while using her mouth, that’s the way for me btw.

Just beware though that by doing this it could have a short term benefit, but desensitise you even more to the point where she needs to get rougher and rougher and rougher.

Originally Posted by CubanB
Just beware though that by doing this it could have a short term benefit, but desensitise you even more to the point where she needs to get rougher and rougher and rougher.

I actually doubt it mate. If sex would need to become really rough as you say then it would then, I believe be much of a psychological problem than a physical one.


I have decided whatever I do I will move forward in life

Don’t bust a nut for 2 weeks, by the end of the 2nd week you’ll bang a retarded dog with sandpaper pussy. And axe the porn, I know your situation all too well and it’s the reliance on wanking that’s the problem.


Progress Tracking As of 01/01/05 : 6.5 BPEL x 5.25 G As of 04/08/05 : 6.75 BPEL x 5.25 G Short Term Goal : 7 BPEL Long Term Goal : When a trip to china and getting on the great wall means hopping on my member

I’ve had this exact same issue where I can never get off on Oral. As for Hand-Jobs it never worked either, It took lots of practice to finally get me off via Hand-Job (6-7 months). I did a lot of research on this, it’s in many ways a condition that’s the opposite of Premature ejaculation. From the research I’ve done the main issue is actually the Masturbation. Essentially you’ve conditioned your penis to like a certain rhythm and grip that only you have mastered! So when your GF does it she probably just jacks you off on a consistent basis where as you might be used to “Jack, jack, deep jack, hold, Jack, Jack, deep Jack, hold etc.”
Stop Masturbating completely as your probably severely conditioned, If not, than try jacking off without any specific rhythm in other words a continual consistent jacking speed with no rhythm and you’ll notice improvements.
Hope this helps,

TSX1000


Starting BPEL: 5.6-5.75 Starting MSEG: 4.1 to 4.3

It's not you

IMHO, it’s the girl. I have been with about 30 chicks in my 34 years. I have good head twice. Unfortunately for me, my wife of 9 years gives head like a shark. A great white shark that is. The girl before her could get me off in 2 or 3 minutes. Her technique was awesome, and she was only 17, I mean 18 (for legal reasons). She would look at me while going down which is a must. And of course she used different pressure and lots of tongue. No hands at all, except for the balls and an occasional butt probe. When younger, I could bust a nut and be ready in 10 minutes for a much longer and better session for her. That was my selling point to her. She would blow me to completion and swallow (which always help the mental aspect). Then I would lick that pussy for 10 minutes and then fuck her brains out. DAMN MAN! I am stirring up some good old memories! If I wasn’t at work, I would pull it out shake one off.

Some girls are good at it, and some can’t suck Pepsi through a straw!

If you have a good relationship, ask her to read up on how to give better head. If not, just stick it in her ass instead! LOL!

CM


1-9-08 BPEL 5.5 X 4.5

1yr Goal 7 X 5.5

Long Term Goal 8X6

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