Sexual Stamina

What, and run off to the toilet to paw yourself like a madman? How embarrassing.. ;)

I think that’s good advice.

I spent several years in a relationship where the sex was like you describe and in the end it drives a huge and insurmountable wedge between you.

Okay, so I’ve figured Im going too hard and maybe too fast. I need to relax more and just enjoy the feeling of great sex because her and I do have great sex. And she does dig my penis I dont have to serve it to her at all, sometimes its fun to make her beg for it. So I guess it’s her that needs to work at it. Before me she’s had two other partners, one she tells me was absolutely terrible, and the other one was her first and she says Im better than both and shes my first so Im doing something right. She hadn’t had sex in two years before last week so maybe she just needs a bit of a warmup before she can go for longer but she says she gets tired… and she said anything over a half hour would be boring… But, I dont know we’ll see - I will keep you guys posted.

This is the best advice so far, thanks.

Red Alert!! Red Alert!!!

Damn dude. My current g/f wouldn’t let me finish after 8 hours of sex because “she couldn’t take it”.
(We only see each other/fuck like every other week)
That, for me, was a big fucking problem.

If she’s telling you 10 min is too long, and anything over half an hour is boring.. “Red Alert” is right..

Get the hell out of that relationship before you dick starts to rot.

A guy who consistently gets off in <10 minutes has premature ejaculation issues. You’re fine. Don’t be too rough. Your thrusts should go in relatively smoothly. If the vagina seems rough, use more lube. The best thing is probably to get her wet first! Can you do this? Play with her clitoris. Don’t go crazy on it either. And be sure it isn’t dry. Use your tongue, or lick your finger. Be gentle. Wait until she asks you to go harder. And set the record straight for her— 10 minutes isn’t enough time to get off.

My current GF and I used to..note: used to, go at it for hours with a record of maybe 4 hours one time with me on viagra (I was 43 at the time) but over time, i.e., the past 3 1/2 years we’ve gotten to the point where she literally says “do me” and I do…and we last all of maybe 5 minutes- but that’s every day and I mean EVERY day. The sad thing is I’m the one that needs the foreplay because without it I can take a lot longer to come than she can take because, without foreplay, she’s depending on the KY.

I’d want to know if you guys are really doing enough foreplay…for her? From all my reading it seems that physiologically women lag us by about 10 minutes. That is, you have a boner and 10 minutes later she’s sopping. Works that way here. Mentally she’s raring to go but her twat’s a dry twig. A nice, tight, dry twig…

Astroglide is better than KY. KY is sucky lube. It doesn’t last long before getting gummy and plastic — and sticky!

I didn’t have time to read all the replies. But what I think is you suffer from retarded ejaculation. This happens to some men. Common solutions include sex without a condom, no masturbation, finding your partner sexually attractive (I am not joking here), and pumping (fixed my problem in no time).

Are you circumcised? If so foreskin restoration can help prevent soreness for her and help you better control when you cum. Have a look at this site Circumcise or Not? How Penis Circumcision Affects Sex It will give you a better idea of what I am talking about.

Get her juices flowing before you have sex. Problem solved.

(Don’t mean to sound harsh, but getting her juices flowing AT ALL would help you)

We usually do about 10-20 minutes of foreplay and shes usually very wet by the time we start so thats not the problem and there’s no Red Alert, she’ll come around. She has just had some terrible previous lovers… I will fix her up.

Missionary while grabbing her ass (gently but firmly) and pulling it upward while you’re in deep and your balls are rubbing on her cheeks (not her facial cheeks, of course. That’d be an odd, extreme talent if you could manage that).