Originally Posted by androNYC

Bro’, here’s the deal- getting her into your bed and keeping here in your bed are utterly different objectives. Truly, any idiot with a rap can bag a 9.8+.

I have. And while my game may be strong, there are limitations.

It takes skill and dedication to keep your 6.6+.

He speaks the truth. However, this chick is your girlfriend. It is my bet that she knows it is your second time. This means she knows you are going to suck. So what you want to do is take the mixture between these two advices:

Originally Posted by advice number 1, provided by codemp

Just ask her what positions she wants to do
The first time I had sex w/ my girl, I asked her if she wanted a ride and she was all for that
2nd time I had sex with her, she wanted me on top

Don’t be afraid to ask

Originally Posted by advice number 2, provided by ANDRONYC

EHHHHH!! [Wrong answer buzzer noise]
You do not ASK anything, you are the man, you do.

[That does not mean that you don’t pay attention to her wants, just that you don’t “ASK” her- HUUUGE mood killer]

Now, obviously you want to be the man in charge. However, you cannot run in there waving your dick around, not knowing what you are doing. You are still at the point where you are accidentally trying to put it in her ass… SO, what you want to do is BE THE MAN, while at the same time FINDING OUT WHAT SHE LIKES. You are not going to be able to read her mind, because you are unexperienced. Only experience will bring you more knowledge. LUCKILY, you know have a girl to gain some experience with. So my suggestion is to not ASK her what she wants, but to TELL her to TELL you what she wants.

I am assuming, and tell me if I am wrong, that you guys have talked about this… With this assumption, I am assuming you will talk about it again. IF this happens, saying something like.. “Tell me, what is your favorite position..?”.. or “What do you like the most?..” As long as you pop the question at the right time, it shouldn’t be a problem to get an answer.. From there, take what she gives you and use it to your advantage..


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