I’ve been doing some searches and I’m not totally finding the answers to the questions I have in my mind at this time, so if you guys could help a newb..
Background: I’m 24, 6.8 length, good girth (I can’t remember off the top of my head). I finally have had the opportunity to lose my v-card and on both situations it didn’t work out so well (she was really tight, couldn’t get it in, and we stopped after a while). I had trouble getting it up after both times.
Problem: I’m worried that I’ve missed my game. I can already see that my erections do not have the stamina they used to, sex has already been a disappointment, and I’m thinking about just giving it up and dedicating myself to my art (writing/scriptwriting). Everything I read tells me that the best sex years of my life are behind me and that I should start settling into a more mature and stable life..
But I’m not ready for that. I don’t think it’s fair. I didn’t have a promiscuous/lascivious period. I didn’t have a chance to play the field and experiment.. Something I see a lot of my mates have had. They’re all starting to settle in after “sowing their wild oats” and I don’t want to be thirty-something, married, with a wandering eye wishing for years that have already passed.
I’m not looking for sappy words of encouragement.. I just want an honest evaluation of what I can expect or advice from the older members on lessons they’ve learned.
Maybe I’m being self-absorbed, but these things are on my mind regardless.