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Oh! It’s good to have the odd nutter on show occasionally. (:

It gives us a chance to see where we sit in the nutters hierachy.

Trouble is I’m not sure whether I’m at the top or at the bottom. I mean: Is one at the top the craziest?

Or the one at the bottom?

Well guys, I must say you all have great points in what you have writen. The purpose of what I wrote was more to get people to look into their lives and ask themselves why they are doing this, the real reason. someone said something interesting about creating a balance. That is something to attain in this life. Just my humble opinion. What I wrote was not meant for everyone, but for the few that may be feeling this is not for them and needed someone to give them a message that would actually put them in a different place mentally, something like hey maybe there is this other thing that I could be doing that would make me advance in life. Doing PE is not the issue. The issue is the more you do it the more you think about your dick. All day with your head is on your penis. At least thats how I felt. I certainly dont wanna live my life with my dick ruling over my mind. And many will say they have control over their mind. But let me tell you if you arte obssesed with anything your mind has rule over you.

So again, this may not be for everyone but im sure a lot of guys come in day after day and just cant help but feel trapped to this obsession to a certain extent. Then as I found, many people here are obviously very happy with the way they spend their time and thats great. Just be free guys, at the end of the day I know thats what most of us want. Some are so enslaved to their minds and this society that surounds them that they cant see even a glimpse of what I am trying to bring forth here. Others here read this and feel the same or maybe need to be free from this. For those was this intended.

My dearest regards and respect to all pErs on this site. Forgive my terrible writing and punctuation

If you found that this was true for you then I’m glad you shared how you felt as maybe others felt the same. I agree, if you are obsessing over it then you should stop. I personally don’t measure my dick much and never have and never will have a consistent routine. I certainly will NEVER post pictures of it online! My penis will be with me for life so I view this is as a life time project, I’m not under any pressure to get x gains by x amount of time but if I do make any gains well that’s cool. I also can learn a lot from people taking it more seriously so I’m in no way against that!

I’ve been doing PE every day, 8 times a day for 6 years, never missing a workout and I can testify that I am absolutely NOT obsessed with it! ;)

Actually, I agree if you are doing PE to “be loved” and you don’t think you can be successful with a woman without it, it is an unhealthy delusion.

Personally, I have always been happy with my dick size, so I PE out of greed and to see if I can make my wife pass out! ;)

Amen brother!

Your mind ”has control over you” no matter who you are. If not, you’d be just another animal with only instincts rather than a human being. It’s perfectly fine to be ”obsessed” by things. ”Obsessed” people are the ones who are remembered and who move societies forward. There are such things as dangerous and detrimental obsessions of course, but in general PE is not an obsession for most men from what I’ve seen. I’ve coached some men over the years, and there were some I just could not seem to help for whatever the reasons. I think it was mostly THEM, honestly. They were either unable to break through some belief barrier, some personal limitation, some ”fear” of injury, some thing that held them back somehow. I think all men can make their penises bigger for the most part. All penises are indeed the same structurally. Some slight variations, but minimal at best. The gainers ”have it” and the non gainers simply don’t. You either figure out how to break through whatever is holding you back, or you struggle and eventually quit.

That’s true with anything in life of course. You either figure out how to get what you want or die tired and frustrated. That’s how life is supposed to be. To many people have it way too easy these days and in return, expect EVERYTHING in life to be easy.

I’m obsessed with my wife, working out, cars, having a good life for me and mine in the future and many other things. The list is literally way too long to post about here. That doesn’t mean I should just stop caring or being ”obsessed” with all these things.

I agree though, if something is occupying your mind to the point that it is detrimental to your life, in other words you have issues with functioning like a normal human and being productive due to this ”obsession”; yes, you need to find help or something else to do. Otherwise, enjoy being obsessed with whatever it is. Few too many people in life have NO obsessions, nothing they care about to any great degree. They’re usually the most miserable, uncomfortable people you will ever meet.

I agree 100%, in this system we have you need to be dedicated to something or many things to achieve. Practice makes perfect. In fact, I read that ‘genius’ or what we label ‘genius’ always comes from putting in the hard hours. I think the word ‘obsession’ just has generally bad connotations as a word however. I think if you said “I’m obsessed with/by my wife” without any context most people would think you are expressing something negative. If you said “I’m devoted to my wife” then we would think that is something good. :)

Balance. If your behaviour is taking you from family, Friends and work then sure it`s a problem, but if it`s a way to make you feel better about yourself in a non-harming way, then why not?

The posts I read here are written by people engaged in an activity that adds value in all areas of one`s life. I personally can`t see a downside to self-improvement, no matter what it is. Unless it is to unfairly treat someone else as a result.

The methods and practices learned here can be applied to any facet of our lives. Imagine this much dedication to athletics or investment or academics?

Agreed! If I wasn’t addicted to PE I’d be addicted to something else that is not so positive and ultimately rewarding. Well rewarding in my own eyes.

Dude it’s like you can read my mind!

Blasphemous is just projecting his own fears.

All of those things are your personal problems, motivations and fears, and should not be assumed to also be ours.

I appreciate that you wish to share your experience, but try and be productive and positive with your posts - negativity and naysayers are not welcome here.

So true for me as well. Before PE I was focused on computer games. And ate rubbish food. And didn’t do sports. Still can’t believe that I was so incredibly stupid. At least nowadays I’m a little less stupid. Perhaps, PE improves not only our dicks.