Sad. Sad. Sad. :(

I just cant seem to stay motivated long enough to see any results. I have tried working out for 2 months with no results.

The funny part is, I have really let my penis size ruin my life. I walk around thinking everyone has a bigger penis then me. I really let it affect my confidense. I have ended my friendships with other men, because they would let me know their penis size in a joking way all the time. The person was nice and all but it really bothered me that he had a bigger wang then me, and I felt inferior, not that I wanted to be superior to him, but I just wanted us to be equal. I am 6’ 5” and Im hung at 5.5” maybe 6” if I am exciting do you know how disapointing that is. I mean I see all these incredibly attractive girls, that I think find me attractive, but I cant commit to meeting them because I am afraid that when and if it came to sex, I would be laughed at in bed! Or straight up rejected!

I really hate being so underendowed! I wish I knew for a certainty that P.E. did in fact work!

What was the question? :P If you are looking for support I’d say stay on the PE , but increase whatever you were doing, you may not be stressing the penis enough. As for sex, it sounds like you haven’t had much experience with girls? I’m sure several will not laugh at 5.5-6” especially when you also have tall stature working for ya. Height has alot of appeal, offspring wise, outing wise. Woman usually like the man to be taller than they are. As for male friends mentioning penis size, can you beleive them without actually seeing it? It also shouldnt matter between real friends unless either of you insult the other’s. Perhaps they said it because they were shorter and felt threatened by your height and in a sense wanted to even the field?

Height is something as humans we cannot change, at least not yet. You should feel lucky to at least have that.

I know one thing for sure. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn’t work.

Stealing the US Army’s recruiting slogan. “Be all that you can be!”

Girls don’t laugh at the size of your penis. Unless you are trying to make a living as a Chip-n-Dale dancer or pron star. If you are a regular guy then you are going to meet regular girls. If all works out you get to fuck them with your regular dick. That is the real world. You do PE to maintain your unit and to make sure it is all that it can be. That is all you can ask. There is no magic number. When your dick is 8.5 inches your life won’t change. You have to change your attitude.

Bullshiting about the size of your cock is a right of manhood. Nobody should ever believe another guy if he claims to have a 14” cock. It is folklore, snipe hunting, BS. What is the lymerick—‘There once was a man from Nantuckette who had a dick so long he could suck it’. So are you going to let your day be ruined because some guy in Nantuckette MIGHT have a bigger cock than you??

Chupicabra,

I feel your pain.

You might try advertising yourself on Craigslist.org or some other online “personals” service. Tell it like it is. “Handsome, 6’3” gentleman of average manly proportions looking for loving relationship with a wonderful woman. Shy but eager.”

Mention all your good traits. I believe you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the responses. Just be careful not to be vulgar or to sell yourself short. Many, many women are looking for a tall gentleman and really couldn’t care less about dick size.

By leading with this information about your dick size in a pseudo-anomonous context, the hope is you will weed out any women who would be disappointed with your average dick without humiliating yourself.

PE generally works to some degree. It’s very realistic that you could get up to 6.5” within a few months if you apply yourself.

Take advantage of the collected wisdom on this forum and get to work. You can control your penis size to some degree, and you really don’t need to gain much before you get over the embarrassment factor. And PE will certainly help you with flaccid hang, which is often the greatest source of concern for men.

My personal PE gains are less than inspiring, but still substantial—about 0.5” length and 0.7” girth. Not what I was hoping for, considering the time I’ve put in, but still enough to convince me that PE is real and does work. I plan to stay focused until I gain another inch in length. This is not easy, and it has it’s disappointments. But commitment leads to success. Apply yourself and you will gain.

I kinda have the same length as you and also feel not good about it.

But what does make me feel good is that I gave some girls the best sex of their life,
and I ‘m still giving my current girlfriend the best she has ever had for over a year now.

It’s not about how long you are, it’s about how long you last and how fast you recover ;)
I used to be one of those lucky guys that could have several orgasms in 1 erection, so that might have been it.

But when I think about it, I can’t do that anymore with my current girlfriend,
so maybe there are just other things then the size of your dick.

I’d like to throw in some other words like: feeling, technique, experience en yes.. even love

Tell us your routine and maybe someone can help?

chupicabra,

You’d be surprised what a little self esteeme can do to a woman. Shape up and face the fact that you have the penis that you have, and then make a stern decision to change that penis. It can be done. Some of us take longer than others; you have to stick with it if you want to see gains.

As others have suggested, maybe you need to routine change. Share what you’re doing it the rest of us, maybe someone else will come up with something better for you.

What are you waiting for? Start jelqing and stretching that sucker, and don’t stop until it gets big!!!

I think I’m missing something here. You say you let your penis ruin your life, but yet you can’t stay motivated long enough to improve your situation. That really makes no sense. Two months is not enough time. Yes, some people have gained in that amount of time, but it’s not the norm.

Quite frankly, I would kill to be 6’5” with a 5.5 incher. How about 5’3” with that size? That would be me. Count your blessings, get off the pity pot, and give PE some time and dedication. PE is not a race; more of a marathon.

Now, go and do what ziggaman said.

There is a lot of truth in that statement. When you stand naked in front of a mirror and you like what is hanging there then PE makes sense to your self. To the world it is just another dick.

I certainly think that in all truthfulness we are all doing this for our own self improvement. Rather than to impress someone else.

Wow! You are a real great lot! I cannot believe how cool everyone is here! I wish I had friends like you in my outiside of this forum.

I basically have done the newbie routine to the T. Particularly concentrating on doing the stretch which I cannot remember the name, but you take your flacid penis in one hand, grabbing it around the base of the head, stretch outward, till you feel a bit of a tug, and then count to 10 seconds. Also I did a variation of this where you pull your penis out and then push down on the middle with your index and middle fingers and then hold for 10 seconds.

You are right about a lack of experience. I have only been with 3 women and I am 30 years old. One of them was a prostitute in Nevada. So that doesnt really count. Anyway I could not satisfy any of these women. The one was a long term gf for 4 years. I would usually go down on here, but it ended ubrubtly because she would get bored and want to do herself. I tried reading all kinds of materials and things to try and have better sex, but nothing worked. I tried stimulating her clitorous while penetrating her, and she refused to do that. I also would try going down on her for a while, but after about 10 minutes my tounge would get tired and I would have to stop. I really tried hard to make her orgasm, but it was impossible. She was very strange in that she could only climax on her back with her legs crossed and her stimulating herself. I at least do not feel so terribly bad about that one, as she told me that none of the other 5 guys she had been with could get her off. Somehoe that just didnt make me feel any better. The other problem is that we could only have intercourse for under 5 minutes, because she was very tight, and it would hurt if any longer then that.

Do you have any tips in the sex department. I want to please women, but I feel like such a frickin failure.

Thanks.

She sounds kinda frigid to me. She will only get off when she does it herself? It sounds like she is the one with the problem, not you.

The best tip I can give you for having better sex is to have fun. You seem to be approaching the whole subject with a lot of performance anxiety. That sucks. I understand why you feel as you do, but I think you need to get past it. Good sex, IMO, is all about feeling good and making a connection with the other person.

Wait you just said she was tight??? but you are insecure about your size??? I don’t get it….

Plus if all she can do is orgasm on her back, with her legs crossed….then hell get under her man, and do her from behind….well of course in reality she may not want to do it like that, but that’s an option.

BTW, I think a lot of us walk/walked around thinking our dicks are/were small, that’s why we’re here. In all brutal honesty I thought my dick was the smallest at one point in my life…but now I know before PE I was average length, and slightly below average girth, but smaller girth makes your penis appear really small.