Red "pinpoint" spots above glans when jelq
So when I jelq I get these very tiny red pinpoint spots all around the vicinity of the glans (just above them to be exact). I always assumed this to be a positive sign of blood being forced in the head of the unit. I started PE about 4 years ago, and immediately noticed very improved erections but wasn’t consistent enough due to lack of time (college on an athletic scholarship) Recently, I resumed jelqing/stretching with the newbie routine + an ESL40 stretcher (available on eBay) with a lot of enthusiasm, maybe a bit too much. Recently I had my second sexual encounter with this chick (picked up PE after the first one) and my EQ quality was abysmal. I had being doing it for 1 week only..
So a few questions..
Are the pinpoint spots bad? (I had them the first time doing PE from what I vaguely remember and it never seemed to be a negative PI)
Did I go overboard with 2 days on 1 day off of the newbie routine (combined with using the ESL40 hanger about 30-1 hr a day)?
When stretching using a circumcised penis is it ok to grip right behind the glans?
Any advice for me? I have a stable job, an apartment with privacy, I’m ready to be commited.. Just want some guidance and advice before I jump back in again..
I think my erections problems are all anxiety driven honestly.. When I’m a bit tipsy girls have complemented on the hardness of my unit but when I’m sober it shrivels up :O