Recommending PE to someone who may still be growing

My younger brother and I have always been very open with each other. We grew up together and didn’t think anything of being in the nude around each other. And my brother, who has many more worries and problems to deal with than I do, has often asked me for advice. Well, it turns out that he almost lost his virginity a little while back but was hindered by his penis size. The girl he was with is a usually sweet person and very attractive, so I was happy to hear it when he told me - until he told me that she decided his “tiny penis” wasn’t going to satisfy her, which to me seemed *very* out of character for her. She didn’t just dump him after seeing it for the first time, because she’s not like that, but it looks like the two of them won’t have sex and are going to “just be friends” instead. This upset me, because the kid doesn’t deserve it. His penis is, from my estimates, under 4 inches long. His girth might be 3 inches. These are generous estimates. In the past I let him believe that he was average and I was a monster, but he seems to have admitted to himself that he really is small. Now, he doesn’t know about PE, but I don’t want him to see something on the internet and make things worse by himself. I’ve had difficulties with it, but I see all the success stories here and am inclined to believe in it’s effectiveness. However, the lack of understanding in terms of how it works bothers me. Can I recommend it to a person who might still be growing in good conscience? I don’t know that he is, but he could be at his age. If PE works, as some have suggested, by scarring, would it be safe for a developing teenager?

No, let him find out on his own.

I heard about jelqing when I was 16 from a friend, and did light jelqing before I found out about TP. I don’t see how it would affect natural growth, but you should probably wait for more replies. I turned out okay :) It probably is best for him to find out on his own though.

Also, I’m sure if you do a search you’ll come up with some answers as I’ve seen this question asked more than once.

I did, but there weren’t any definitive answers. “I dunno, maybe” responses don’t help anyone.
What is TP? No search results on that.

Care to elaborate as to why?

Here are a couple threads in case you missed them, I doubt you’ll be able to find a definitive answer even now though:
Can PE stunt penis growth during puberty?
can i PE if im still gaining because of puberty (18 years old)

TP = Thunder’s Place. (:

If those are flaccid estimates I doubt he has anything to worry about.

Women like to say hurtful things sometimes, even “sweet” ones do so.

You do not mention the age of your younger brother, but if he is young enough there are medical options that may be available to him. Physicians can use both DHT and HCG to help with micropenis. I am not sure that he fits that definition either, but it may be accurate.

I would suggest that you work with your brother now, as the damage seems to have been done already. Confidence as a teenager is a critical component of success, and not just with the opposite sex.

To be honest, I dont see how it would be a problem.

Seems to me a bunch of people on this thread say that you should be 18 before getting involved. In realty I started when I hit 16, I made a bunch of mistakes due to the teenage voice saying jelq harder and more gains. I believe if you teach him the correct way to do the exercises, it would be fine. I am 18 years old now, and I have grown up a bunch. Realized more is not always more.

>.> … <.< … Youngnswolen… you joined thundersplace in Oct 2006. You say that you are 18 now,.. so does that mean you registered when you were 16? tsk! tsk! Anyways… the question now I have for you is do you believe that starting pe at 16 gave you an advantage, pe + natural growth = more gains? or do you think you could have done better waiting to complete puberty meaning that pe diminished your pubescent penile growth?

To the original poster, my personal belief is that even the majority of 18 year olds that are in thundersplace (excluding me !:) ) simply do not have the discipline and dedication to do pe properly and constantly. Most fail because of what I call, the error of the age, they have other adolescent indulges that steer them away from focusing on pe. I get that all the time, trust me. I’m not being arrogant but most 18 year olds do not have the capacity to do pe, they lack the ability of coherent understanding on how to evaluate and perform effective pe. They will quit halfway and just try to live the f***ed up teenage life. After all they can always fall back to their friends in search of acceptance and as a means of nulling the size insecurity. It is when they get out of the error of the age, they realise… “Awww shucks!” then they remember about thundersplace and restart with pe. I bet that there are many such guys that registered at a very young age only to find themselves back in the same situation they left in. So whether or not to tell your brother about this, go figure. ;)

Excluding you. :)

That’s like saying that kids shouldn’t do sports because it will stunt their growth. Physical activity when growing up or anytime is good for you and makes you stronger. Same with PE. Like any activity though, you have to learn how to do it right. You have to learn how to do sports correctly if you want to succeed and the same is true with PE. Your body excels when you do healthy activities.

I did not suggest anything at all.. I was merely asking him his opinion.

Since we’re on the topic, gprent what advise would you give for the younger guys (18 > 21 some late bloomers) on their pe. Any tips on maximizing their pe by making use of their youth?

The best advice I could give is stay in control and don’t go overboard and hurt yourself. This is the opposite of no pain no gain. If you have pain or discomfort, you are doing it wrong.

I will add one more thing. The primary goal of PE should be to make your penis as healthy as possible in both form and function. If you do that, increased size will follow.

This thread again?

Sorry, no definitive answers here- PE isn’t a definitive kind of thing.