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To all,

I am now 26 years old and started doing “PE” when I was 18. I was a regular visitor to this site many years ago. After performing exercises such as jelqing and stretching for roughly a year and a half, my penis was perhaps a half inch longer and a little thicker at the base. However, this is not the end of the story. Because of excessive stretching, I damaged the suspensory ligament in my penis. From that point on, since I was 20 years old, I have had moderate erectile dysfunction. Urologists confirmed that the suspensory ligament was damaged, not to mention possible damage to the veins from jelqing. Because of this damage I received an expensive operation to repair the ligament. The operation resulted in my penis becoming shorter than ever before, and only somewhat improved function. Before this obsession I was an extremely successful guy with a bright future. I had no problem getting dates. However, one angry girlfriend with a large cunt used my average dick size to hurt me, and I became obsessed with being larger. Because of this obsession my life was destroyed.

I am posting here as a warning to all of the young men like me. I allowed insecurity over the size of a body part to destroy my sexuality and ability to have a normal life. Whatever you may think about the size of your dick, performing unnatural exercises to enlarge it is not worth risking permanent damage to your sexuality. There are women in the world who have very tight pussies and will not care about the size of your cock. Good women, tight pussy or not will not care all that much about your cock size, any more than you care about the size of their vagina. PE is an obsession for men like anorexia, bulimia or plastic surgery is for women. It stems from the same insecurities, and is potentially even more devastating. I would do anything today to have a fully functional 5 inch penis rather than the damaged 6 inch one I have now.

If you are considering starting these exercises, or if you have already started down that road, take some time to think this through. The risk is overwhelming, and your possible gain in size is very small. The penis is not designed to be abused in this manner. Ligaments and other connective tissues heal very poorly or not at all, and like a rubber band, once the ligament is stretched or torn it will not go back to it’s original, biologically designed elasticity.

If these exercises really worked great, with no side effects, there would be fortunes to be made from marketing them. They do not, and that is why sleazy internet sites and other such places are the only sources to buy the “secrets” of these “revolutionary” techniques. Do a quick google search and you will find countless people on erectile dysfunction forums asking for help from doctors because they damaged themselves with these techniques. Do a google search for “penile suspensory ligament damage” and you will find scientific papers discussing surgery to repair damage to this structure which resulted in erectile dysfunction.

Finally, think about your family. This injury has not only destroyed my life, it has greatly hurt those who care about me. My parents have been devastated by my transformation from a confident, successful young man, to an insecure, depressed and damaged person with no future. Think about how you will react if you really do develop ED. Think about how it will affect your entire life, and those who care about you. You think having a small penis is an embarrassing secret? Imagine the humiliation of having a limp dick that doesn’t work at all. Imagine knowing that you will never have a family or children, and that everyone will judge everything you say and do in the context of impotence.

Women worth pursuing care a lot more about your confidence, intelligence, success, and internal character traits than they care about the size of your dick. Damaged, angry women use penis size as a weapon to hurt men. Don’t allow them to destroy your self-confidence, and for god’s sake don’t allow their insults to cause you to physically damage yourself. Get off of this site and start working on developing yourself in ways that matter. This crap just isn’t worth the risk.

-John D.

P.S. Take note of how quickly the moderators of this site who likely own enlargement websites erase this post. If they really gave a shit about you, if they were really not trying to subtly hawk a product, would they eliminate posts about injuries resulting from these techniques? Of course not.

So what you’re saying is, if you tie a brick to it and throw it over the bridge you may hurt it? Oh, I dont have anything to do with this site, or any other one.

This forum stresses moderation and above all, avoiding injury when performing these exercises. If you do go overboard and injure yourself we always recommend that you stop, let yourself heal and then begin again at lower intensity levels.

Thanks John.

No, what I am saying is that I performed excercises in the manner proscribed here and on other enlargement sites recommended here and developed permanent erectile dysfunction. Do you think I am lying? Do you think I spent the time on the above post for my personal amusement? No. I am here for one purpose, to try and convince other people to avoid the devestation that I brought on myself. If one person takes the time to read this before it is erased, if one person decides to use some common sense and reject this crap before they hurt themselves, than it will be well worth it.

If you had used common sense when performing the exercises, you wouldn’t have hurt yourself to such an extent. Your body has amazing powers to heal itself and only extreme damage turns out to be non-repairable. I don’t know why you continued to damage yourself so badly, but you only have yourself to blame.

For me, it’s a welcomed criticism. I believe gains are possible, but want to know the risks I’m taking.

Sounds like John didn’t read all the disclaimers about safety before he jumped in and did his exercises. I’d also wager that this post won’t ever be taken down, I’ve only seen posts removed or held when personal insults are tossed around. It sucks that you ended up injured, and I think it is very helpful you’ve given people information that could help them, but I think it shows that you just have to be careful with what you do.

I’m pretty sure there are tons of stretching devices, hanging devices, pumps and other contraptions which are used for enlargement. Also doctors offer these devices as a post surgery treatment.

I’m sorry to hear about you hurting yourself, but there is so much evidence that PE is a safe and healthy way to improve yourself. It’s unfortunate what happened to you and I hope you have a full recovery. Personally I don’t think you were PE’ing correctly if you injured yourself, but what do I know.

It’s obvious that there are risks associated with PE, but then again there are risks associated with everything we do today. The main question is does the risk outweigh the rewards and vice versa.

Thanks for sharing your story, I think it should serve as a warning to those considering undertaking these practices as there certainly is significant risk involved with many of the exercises outlined in this site.
On the other hand there are countless people who have made significant gains and many others who have maybe not made huge gains but have overcome erectile dysfunction and/or increased the overall “health” of their units without injuring themselves. I’m truly sorry for the outcome you have arrived at, although I must say that you are the only person that can be held accountable for that outcome.

I know as men and humans we can be pretty outcome driven, I for one will take your warning to heart and will think twice before moving on to more advanced techniques such as hanging, although at 35 I must say that the overall health of my penis and the quality of my erections is better now then I can ever remember. In six months I have gained probably a half inch in length and a quarter inch in girth which has done wonders for my overall self confidence.so thank you to this site and the members involved in making it a wealth of knowledge. Each of us only has one penis, let’s all treat them well and be safe.

Thanks!

Two quotes from “GRX, the mind of minutia”…

1) “Love is bigger than any penis.” If you goal is to be in love with a mate, long term or for life; it won’t really matter how big, small, curved or bumpy your penis is.
2.) “The greatest challenge in life is to be satisfied with yourself how you are.” This is one of the forces that drive mankind to either strive for improvement or wallow in defeat.

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If the veins in you unit were damaged, they should heal on their own, unless they were just mangled.

This is the classic story I didn’t gain so it must be imposable.I don’t own a penis web site, and make no money off PE.I have a larger dick then I started with and will keep going till I reach my goal.

You are blaming PE for most likely not head it warnings. Ripping a ligaments is very hard to do unless you are pulling with all your might, and I don’t think any one here told you to do this.

If you were really on here then you know all the senior guys tell the newbies to stick to the newbie program.It’s your fault you pulled your dick to hard and caused your own injures.

This is like some one going to the gym hurting them self and saying weight training is bad for you.

The fact he said they would pull the post, tells me he isn’t a person who frequents this site. I have never seen a post pulled.I have seen members kick off for being rude to other members.

On top of this, everyone who sells stuff on here has commercial account plastered under there name. So you know they sell a product and if they think you are trying to sell something they will make you go to a commercial account.

Everyone should read the third line in my signature. This is a reminder that you can cause serious damage if you overdo. However I can’t help but think troll! I could be wrong.