Read This First: Warning To Newbies

Jungle112, can you get an erection? Once you’ve gotten an erection, does it pretty much stay erect on its own or with minimal stimulation?

If you can answer ‘yes’ to both those questions, chances are that you don’t have a leak.

Thanks Lampwick, Sometimes when I stroke to hard during sex I get soft, and I mean hard like back work out hard. Think it’s anything?

I’m thinking about doing PE exercises.even with the associated risk, but I am first going to go on a good healthy diet first quit my body in top shape and probably try it out in a few months I will be researching for the time being. I don’t think I would get a venous leak the way I use to masturbate.I was a chronic masturbator I was addicted to porn I would abuse my penis at least.well.maybe more then 10 times a day easily.

What is minimal stimulation? Is porn with out jerking of minimal stimulation?

The quality of your erection is going to vary somewhat naturally based on a number of factors - certain positions, for example. It would not surprise me if someone said that they were unable to keep an erection during very strenuous sex.

No, I was thinking of minimal manual stimulation. Light touch.

Would viagra work with someone with a venous leak? or can any form of morning wood occur?

My dick has been not functioning properly for 5 years since I took up PE for 3 months. I think I jelq’ed with too hard a dick. what kind of damage can that cause because im sure I broke it.

Getting erections is hard work and they fade quickly. But i sometimes wake up, if i am lying on my side, with an erection, but as soon as i become aware of it or touch it, it fades to half the hardness.

Viagra works though, but I dont want to have to take viagra all the time!

I haven’t tried my PE exercises yet, but wouldn’t masturbation and rough sex be worse then slighty worse for your penis then jelqing and other exercises? Wot.when did you start PE exercises? And was this problem happening before you started PE exercises or after? I have done after masturbating for periods of a time where I can’t get erect for like 4 or 5 days maybe a week and then my urge will come back.

I was ok pre-PE. Not sure at what point my dick stopped working. Whether it was denial or what, I have no idea but it’s like one day I just noticed it didn’t get hard for long before it went soft again.

I wouldn’t say rough sex is similar to jelqing. And my urge is there just not the physical responce. But i think my libido is lower since I noticed it and from all of the times I have lost it with a girl.. like everytime!

If you get errections whilst sleeping or morning wood, it sounds like it could be a psychological issue, rather than physical.
So avoid taking pills and maybe see a psychologist.

This is a great thread, thanks guys.

Anyone else experience this? I’m not exactly satisfied with para-goomba’s well-intentioned attempt at easing my mind.

I have the same. If I remember correctly, I had it ever since I started PE.
My guess is it becomes more obvious when you force blood in there and let go. It’s not something you’d normally do outside of PE, so not really noticable.

Is it full when you stand? Mine is only really noticable when I’m sitting or on my back.

Hello and thanks for reading, I am young 21, and I was pe’ing for maybe 4 months last year and a bit on and off. I am pretty worrried myself. I find asides from sleep I absolutely need physical stimualtion to get an erection even with women (definitely can’t get one from just making out!), and this really alarms me.. Way too young. Of course I do not know if this is because of PE or most 21 year olds require physical stimulation to get an erection.

I can be making out with the hottest of chicks and she can be topless and everything, but no boner without physical friction. Masturbation is the same, I need physical stimulation to get hard, even when I am horny. Please I need insight, is this at all normal? I didn’t find it to be normal.

I suspected it was because of pe, but the MoS board didn’t acknowledge that pe has any negative consequences (this board is so very more honest, and it makes me sick thinking about it.. This thread no doubt wouldn’t be supported on the MoS message board).

Any advice or insights! Thanks!

Craighy.I remember the first time I made out with a girl I was hard for the whole day up until the next morning lol. But yea after making out with a lot of girls and getting blowjobs and having sex I stopped getting hard from making out with a girl too. My friends all brag to me now (24 years old) that even when they go to a strip joint they don’t get hard or with making out with a girl. Hell I know plenty of my friends don’t even get hard when they are getting a blowjob or get hard from sex sometimes attraction is important, ugly girls make dicks shrink lol. Sounds mental to me buddy.that is just my opinion though. I have ran trains with my friends with about 4 girls and trust me I seen some of my friends getting blowjobs and staying soft for 10 minutes it is really embarrassing and happens way more then you think. I seen my friends fucking some bustdowns met at the bar and their dicks wouldn’t get hard with the girl pussy just sitting there.man I sure do though lol I need physical stimulation except if I am really really turned on.

Thanks for the reply.

What I’m saying though is that I need physical stimulation for every single erection.. To me at age 21 I’m not sure that is natural.. Any others have any input about if this is normal or not.

I’m not a doctor so I can’t say for sure. From my own experience, what you are having doesn’t sound normal. This cannot be a physical problem though, because you say it does go erect with stimulation. If there was physical damage to the tissue, you wouldn’t even be able to do that.

Psychologically there could be hundreds of reasons and probably near impossible to determine the cause without the help of a psychologist.
Could PE be the cause psychologically? Maybe? We are training our dicks not to go over 80% erection most of the time with PE. This is a mental thing and could perhaps play a role. Anyone else think it could?