Thanks to all who replied to my previous post (“starting size (what a let down)” starting size (what a let down)).
FYI, I remeasured using BP per luvdadus’ advice and got 7.25 BPEL and 7.81 BPFL (stretched). My “girth”, or lack thereof, is still a bummer to me at 4.625 EG, so I’ll start looking into a general plan with focus on girth.
PS: Told my girlfriend about my PE efforts. She knew about my anxiety over size already after having let it slip once that a former lover was bigger ( that was hard for me to deal with). Happily, she had nearly the exact response that Heather did to ItsElectric, namely, “don’t do it for me because I love you as you are, but if it’s for you go ahead and try it”.