Thanks Yataghan. That sounds like me. When she was giving me a BJ I couldn’t even feel like she was doing anything to me except when she put her tongue on the frenulum. Even then it didn’t feel like it felt when getting a handjob. Right now my frenulum is so much less sensitive than how it used to be. I used to drive myself to the edge with just light strokes on the frenulum but now I have to add my mind to get that close - will myself as you put it. I’ll give it a week of jelqing and see how it goes after that.
I’ve been off porn for close to six months and masturbate so rarely with the last time being almost three weeks ago. Things that I’ve been doing differently recently are stretching without jelqing (stopped since), high dose Iodine, reducing estrogen with supplements. I hope I soon get to enjoy everything like you seem to be.