Quick girth

Hey all, new here. I’ve been beating my meat like it owes me money since I was a kid & doing a lot of these exercises without even knowing it. Never saw gains but I have steel erections even at 41 & steel morning wood almost everyday. Problem is girth is @ 4.75” & my tight wife starts to feel very loose if she’s really wet or after she cums. She says my wang is perfect, I am fine 6” as it bottoms all the time so I’m good there. She says I need no girth & she isn’t into girth (which I think is a lie). Tried jelqing but with foreskin I don’t care for it. Have come up with modified versions that seem to work & not wreck my shaft. I am noticing the best stuff from clamping. What I’ve noticed is the slight swelling & getting my foreskin swelled adds the extra pull on me that makes it feel really good inside her. I still warm it up, do some stretching, massage work than clamp. Problem is by set 2-3 I can’t take it anymore & have to destroy my wife so it is always followed by orgasm, not sure if I should be doing that?

So with that said, what is the best way for slightly more engorgement? Not trying to grow half an inch in a month, but keeping it swelled, foreskin swelled & not causing any ED or losing my rock hard erections? I do believe for my wife she would rather have steel then big & floppy.

If you feel your conditioned enough you can try pumping. Pumping gives me great temporary girth gains. I also started out at 4.75 mid shaft I’m now at 5.5 and larger after a pumping session. Whatever you choose start out slow and build up.

Hey, first off.. Welcome! I’m on a complete girth journey as well. I had a similar situation to you and want to get to a point to where no matter how wet, I know she’s feeling stretched.

How long have you been doing PE? Obviously (same as you’ll see all over this forum), start with newbie exercises if you are new. To be honest, jelqing was my least favorite exercise. I don’t have foreskin but it still seemed just too simple. However, when I wasn’t implementing them my erection quality went down quite a bit. Now, I jelq as much as possible. It’s a part of my daily routine and sometimes I’ll just do a quick 5 minute jelq session throughout the day.

So that being said, if you want to keep a strong erection while obtaining gains, you definitely want to keep jelqing even if it’s not comfortable (you’ll get better at it the more you do it). It will help with girth gains as well.

For slightly more engorgement, maybe try adding a c-ring while jelqing, then keeping the c-ring on for awhile. This helped me quite a bit (helps with keeping a strong erection too).

I do pump for routine, only problem I have with pumping is it takes a while to be able to get an erection after using it. We’ve tried using it for sex but it kills my erection in the moment. I like clamping & cock rings, in fact I LOVE cock rings during sex. Current routine is warm up for 5 min or so with hot wash cloth & keep rewarming. Light massage & jelq. Then I do (don’t remember what they’re called) but I lay a dry wash cloth on my sink counter, lube up with oil, lay my unit on the cloth & use my palm down to massage slowly up the shaft. I then do horse squeezes, some other compression type grip, jelqs, swing it around like a rope in multiple directions, bang it against my thighs. Repeat about 3 times. Then I rewarm myself up & clamp. I clamp for about 7-10 min, I keep an eye on things & don’t ever let it get painful, also possible I like the engorgement & size so much I don’t notice any pain? But I know when to take it off. Rest 10 min & repeat. Was then hanging out playing with video games with the pump on for 10 min 10 off for 3 sets. But if I orgasm then I don’t. 2 hours later (when we typically get alone time) I have a slightly engorged very hard penis & the cock ring just enhances it. You think that’s a routine that’s going to get some girth going?

Edit: I should note I do take rest days, 2-3 days on always one day off, sometimes I take a 48 hour break

Oh, when I say slightly engorged I mean it mean just a tad more than usual, but it is fully engorged & very hard

There are times when a woman is very wet, she tends to get loose. If you have been married for quite a while, and she knows about your girth, then, most likely, that is not a problem for her. If you think, say, a woman is too loose for you, and that is very important to you, then, you would not have stayed in the relationship, right? Unless, maybe, you are doing something on the side, which I am not in any shape or form suggesting. Just consider, if your girth is material to her happiness, she would have already quit on you notwithstanding other traits because girth is important to her. If she still with you, by means of modus tollens(logical rule of inference), girth is not material. She would have made this decision a long time ago. Because she is still with you, then, as a matter of inference, I believe what she said about girth. You said you make her cum and wet. That is a good indication. Nonetheless, PE as you please.

So I got my hydromax x30. First it seems too big even though that was the recommended size. Pumped I am at the 7” mark but the girth is no where near the side walls nor do I even want it that fat My goal is 5.5” girth but I’ll settle for 5.25”. But what I am asking is, am I doing something wrong? I get a much better pump from my cheap air pump. I’ve also used my cheap pump in the shower & it seems to do the exact same thing the x30 does, only with more power? Seriously thinking I am sending it back unless I see why it’s different or better? It seems to be just an over priced pump with no difference to a cheap pump?

And any newbs readings this, less is better, take these dudes advice about not getting over zealous & take rest days. Nothing “bad” has happened to me but my wife mentioned I seemed shorter yesterday & I felt shorter and I know it’s because I’ve been pumping & jelqing for 5 days straight. However I will note I don’t really like jelqs so I’m probably doing less than a 100 in a session & my sessions are half an hour if that. Warm up, 5 min pump with varying pressure, some jelqs, chill for 5 min, repeat, put light cock ring on for 5 min while I chill so its flaccid & plump, then I usually jump in the shower then I pump & wash, maybe 2-3 min? Do it again then I’m done. Since I got the hydromax I have only used that in the shower 3-5 min sessions per the directions. Just didn’t think I got a work out at all?

I had the same concerns about my Bathmate. I would get crazy expansion after a 20 min set. Sometimes close to an inch in girth and wouldn’t even come close to filling it. That’s why I switched to a cylinder with a gauge. Much safer. At least you know what pressure you’re pumping at.

Your concerns and size sound like a Bathmate Hercules. A water pump that’s too big is much less effective than an air pump that’s too big. Though a properly sized water pump does seem to offer a lot of benefits in contrast to an air pump.

That said, I hate water pumps. Tried them twice. The lack of a gauge and amount of guesswork involved is disconcerting to say the least, flat out dangerous to say the most.

Additionally, even though it’s too big it can still hurt you. I’d definitely see about a refund but most sex toy and gear places don’t take returns, especially on opened merchandise.

Thanks for the info guys. I’m flirting with X30; but Hercules seems more effective for my size.

Yeah, I saw a video where a guy measured the Hercules, it measured Length: 8.5” & Girth: 6.25”

Thanks Ameliorate

Hydromax has a 60 day money back no questions asked return. Maybe I’ll exchange for the hercules. Does anyone else have / loose erection ability after pumping? Takes a couple hours after pumping for me to get hard?

The Hercules is 9.75”/24.8cm in length and 2.25” Internal Diameter / 7.06” Circumference
That’s the full length, it’ll go down a bit due to the pad being compressed when used. 8.5” seems right. I just measured the girth and it’s indeed 2.25”, equating to 7.06” AT BASE. It’s a bit less inside, but that’s really hard to measure correctly.

Oh and no, no issues with being hard afterwards, but I’m VERY conservative with pressure usually.

I was conservative too last night. Wife got sort of mad, we burst through the door after our date, was gonna get in the shower but the passion lead to me throwing her down & I was ROCK hard. We decided to take a shower so we could 69 (our favorite) & I put the bathmate on low pressure for 30 seconds then engorged it just to bang it against her leg & make noises like I was some huge porn star. But couldn’t maintain an erection after that even using cock rings, would get it really hard for a bit then it would be gone. Had to finish her with a vibrator & oral. Then 2 hours later I wake up with the hardest plump erection & wake her up with it (My wife is the most sexually generous partner, I can literally use her as my fuck toy whenever I want. If she hears me masturbating in the middle of the night since my dick is keeping me up, she will roll over, blow me, swallow it & go back to sleep. She’s also hot & why she’s with me I’ll never know).

So how much should you fill a BM up with your size? Should my penis be almost touching the sides? If the x20 is on the cusp of being too small will pumping in the x30 lead to the canister being just right here shortly?