I was conservative too last night. Wife got sort of mad, we burst through the door after our date, was gonna get in the shower but the passion lead to me throwing her down & I was ROCK hard. We decided to take a shower so we could 69 (our favorite) & I put the bathmate on low pressure for 30 seconds then engorged it just to bang it against her leg & make noises like I was some huge porn star. But couldn’t maintain an erection after that even using cock rings, would get it really hard for a bit then it would be gone. Had to finish her with a vibrator & oral. Then 2 hours later I wake up with the hardest plump erection & wake her up with it (My wife is the most sexually generous partner, I can literally use her as my fuck toy whenever I want. If she hears me masturbating in the middle of the night since my dick is keeping me up, she will roll over, blow me, swallow it & go back to sleep. She’s also hot & why she’s with me I’ll never know).
So how much should you fill a BM up with your size? Should my penis be almost touching the sides? If the x20 is on the cusp of being too small will pumping in the x30 lead to the canister being just right here shortly?
Dude I’ll skip the fun scene description as I’m just too jealous, hehe :)
As for the BM, I’m FAR from touching both sides. Far from it! I take it very slow and get to 5.3” girth max, and there’s lots good room on both sides. I am rock hard in it though, so the upwards curve means I sometimes touch one side but lots of space on the other.