Questions for the Married Guys

I am new here. I have some questions for the married guys.

1) Hair Removal - While Jelqing, the hair on the shaft of my member irritates me. I do not think shaving is an option because the razor stubble will irritate my wife. I have heard waxing and cause damage to the skin, plucking is labor intensive and painful, and electrolysis is expensive (not to mention the sitting around with my junk out). What are my options.

2) PE on the DL - My routine consists of stretching and jelqing. I am not sure how to wear an extender or use a pump and keep this journey on the DL? Any thoughts?

3) L-Citrulline / Erection quality - I have been doing PE and taking L-Citrulline. I am 50 and have noticed my morning wood being less than exciting. Since starting this program, EQ is up (pun intended). Can anyone tell me if they experienced the same result from only exercise or only L-Citrulline?

4) Cock Rings - I have used them to pump up the jam, I have not used them for PE before. I have read that after a jelqing routine, wearing a cock ring can cement your girth gains. I usually only wear one for 20 minutes or so during sex, then I remove it because of warnings that over 20-30 minutes can cause damage. Do any of you guys wear a ring all day? If so, what kind? Also, my pubes get caught in the ring and removal can be a bit uncomfortable. Not sure if my Manscaping is being done correctly. Any thought would be appreciated.

Hi Steve and welcome to Thunders! Lots of great knowledge here.

1) I shave semi regularly to keep the stubble down, and keep everything pretty short. I am unaware of waxing causing skin damage. I have my back waxed every so often and don’t have any serious issues, just the occasional red bumps that go away with benadryl. Laser removal may be an option but is also expensive.
2) My wife is aware of my PE efforts which makes the process much easier. Prior to telling her, I just found private time to work my program. Loose shorts/pants can cover up the extender pretty well.
3) I am 59 and am combatting ED so cant help you here.
4) I use a c ring for sex (major effective in offsetting ED) and also wear a stainless steel ring all day to keep a better flaccid hang. The all day c ring is more of a weight and is not on tightly. I don’t have any knowledge on cementing girth from a c ring. I also trim up enough to keep a clear path for my c ring during sex. I use a good lube during sex to reduce the ball burn I occasionally get from the tight c ring. I wear it up to 30 mins at a time for sex, but not longer. Just pay attention to how my dick feels. Some times it can be a race to bust a nut before the ball burn gets so severe I gotta pull the c rings off.

You may as well tell your wife why your doing. She will find out eventually. It’s hard to hide it as it takes a lot of time alone. She will eventually ask questions.

Erection qualities can be due to many factors, low testosterone, poor circulation, other health issues. Check with your doctor. But I find jellying and manual stretching can have a positive effect.

I shave. My wife likes it. It’s clean and it makes me look bigger. She likes it for when she gives oral.

A c ring will help keep blood in the penis and will (for some people) make your erection feel firmer and harder. I like them.

I did PE on the down low for a year and then wanted to get a penis pump. My wife and my credit cards are tied together so she ask me about the pump and accessories like cock rings and penis sleeves I ordered. So I told her that it was for male enhancement and ED problems and she just said ok. Then I use the pump at my desk when I am on the computer and she comes in and sits down next to me and talks to me like nothing unusual is going on. She just accept it is something I do and she asks me every so often how things are going with the exercises. I think we don’t give our wives credit enough that they will accept what we are trying to do and give us the space and time to do it.

3) L-Citrulline / Erection quality

Also curious about this one if it helps with EQ, or if anyone has anything to add.

(afaik L-citrulline is more efficient way of getting L-arginine into your system than taking L-arginine directly)

One of my many daily supplements is L-Arginine with L-Citrilline. I think I have there is a positive result from taking them, but It’s not such a positive result that I can definitively point to its benefit. My situation (ED) is different than most here.

Tell your wife and explain is about the health of your penis. It’s likely she will be on board.

1) I shave. You just have to do it often enough.

2) I was only able to keep it DL for like a week. You either have to be honest with her or have a lifestyle that gives you plenty of solo time.

3) It’s relatively common for guys to have eq issues at the beginning when there is tunica expansion/growth that’s so fast the cavernous tissue can’t grow to fill it as quickly. L-citruline and l-argenine won’t help much, but they aren’t harmful.

I use the same and can feel a difference when I don’t take them for a few days.
I take them more for working out then PE but still helps with both for an NO boost.

Three years in, still stealth mode, wife credits my lifting supplements for the gains… which I love because then I never get shit for ordering more supplements.
LMAO!

Shave and trim.
Shave the shaft and sack and fairly tightly trim the pubes.
I do this once every week or ten days and stumble has never been an issue.