Questions about ED and what's normal
Hello! I’m new here at this site. I have some questions I would wanna ask you guys, as a see you as a bunch of informative beings.
First let me tell you about my PE experience.
I haven’t done much PEing mostly just some stretching to increase my flaccid size, but did not have a regular schedule.
Done a fairly little amount of jelqing but I was afraid I might damage it so I kinda just quit after a 5-6 tries.
I am worried I might have a venous leak to some degree I am not sure but, I lose erections fast or faster than I think is normal.
I first noticed this problem when I was having sex with a girl I met, when I was going out. We started kissing and my erection was weak and it took allot of stimulation to get it up!
I then managed to penetrate her but dint came so after awhile we just stopped and fell asleep.
Even though I was drunk I think since I am 21 I should have a problem anyway, but I blamed it on the booze.
I then later met another girl which I dated for 2 months, here is where my problems surfaced. I was able to have sex the first couple of times ok, but would lose it (erection disappearing to fast) sometimes like 1 outta 3 times.
If I managed to penetrate her I would not lose it unless I stopped due to the fact that I have a hard time cumming inside a vagina even if it was a tight fit. She later broke up with me which caused me some depression to some degree because I thought I was the reason she did so. I’m not very experienced in sex I might add, but I tried to do a little test on myself to find out if it was nerves. I tried to Measure how long my erection would last until it got soft with out touching it or thinking about something erotic. I usually managed to stay hard for 20 - 30 seconds until it was so soft that penetration would be difficult. It starts to lose blood around err 17 or 18 seconds. This is without any manual stimulation or viewing something erotic tried to clear my mind as best as a could. Only used my hand to get hard.
So is it Anxiety? I am a laid back guy because I try to be, but I do get pretty nervous around a girl but that’s normal right?
Or is it a Venous leak
Can you guys stay hard just viewing porn? I can sometimes if I’m horny other times it goes down after about a minute or so.
Alright that’s it I guess hope to get some replies.