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Question on Size

Hey guys,

How many people here read the measurements of the tape or ruler, but still feel small?

I have a flacid length of 5” and a flacid mid-shaft girth of 5.25”. In a couple of months my flacid girth will be somewhere around 5.75” but I’m worried I’ll still feel inadaquate. I’m trying to gain length and I think if I can get to 7” BPEL I’ll feel a little better (currently 6.75”). Right now I feel as if my length is small.

Anyone else deal with this?

Originally Posted by Big Dipper
Hey guys,

How many people here read the measurements of the tape or ruler, but still feel small?

I have a flacid length of 5” and a flacid mid-shaft girth of 5.25”. In a couple of months my flacid girth will be somewhere around 5.75” but I’m worried I’ll still feel inadaquate. I’m trying to gain length and I think if I can get to 7” BPEL I’ll feel a little better (currently 6.75”). Right now I feel as if my length is small.

Anyone else deal with this?

More than two Big Dipper, more than two.

And you are just fine in your size, same as my wonderful husband and I have no complaints.


sunny A day without sunshine is like a day without laughter :sun:

Your length is far from small, Big Dipper. Don’t let it get to your head.


Short Term Goal - 7.75 BPEL

Originally Posted by Big Dipper
Hey guys,

How many people here read the measurements of the tape or ruler, but still feel small?

I have a flacid length of 5” and a flacid mid-shaft girth of 5.25”. In a couple of months my flacid girth will be somewhere around 5.75” but I’m worried I’ll still feel inadaquate. I’m trying to gain length and I think if I can get to 7” BPEL I’ll feel a little better (currently 6.75”). Right now I feel as if my length is small.

Anyone else deal with this?


Your flaccid size is actually quite large. You are in the top 10% in flaccid length and top 5% in flaccid girth.

You are not the only one. And by the way, you are not small.


2005: 5.5 EL & 5.6 EG, FL: 4in > Now: 7.5 NBP & 6.1 MEG, 5.8 BG (Goal: MORE !)

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I actually think one of my problems is my glans. What is the average head girth? I think mine is around 4.5-4.75 at the largest part.

I should be at 6.25” EG (mid shaft) and 7” BPEL in the next three months. I’m hoping this new size will help releive my insecurities.

Originally Posted by Big Dipper
I should be at 6.25” EG (mid shaft) and 7” BPEL in the next three months. I’m hoping this new size will help releive my insecurities.


:-k

7” BPEL is only 0.25” above where you are now. Take a look at that distance on a ruler. It’s barely noticeable. Why would that difference make such a big deal to you? It seems sort of silly: 6.75” = insecure vs. 7” = secure. Maybe the reason for your insecurity lies elsewhere.

Funnily enough - with my current girth (around 4.5, sometimes as alow as 4 1/2 midshaft) I have completely come to terms with never getting an erect girth much over 5 inches. To me, your girth would be something to feel happy with, certainly not to feel small with.


Started:| 14 cm (unsure if BP or NBP) EG (mid-shaft) - 10.75 cm |

Current:| NBPEL - 17 cm; EG (circum scar) - 10.75 cm; (base) 14 cm |

Short-t Objective:| NBPEL - 18.5 cm EG (circum scar) - 11.5 cm |

Good point. I guess 7” has a nice ring to it. Maybe I should be going for 7.5” BPEL.

Some of this is stemiming from a situation I experienced a while ago. I live in Chicago and was out partying. I ended up doing a shitload of cocaine (which I’ve never done before) while drunk. I ended up going home with this girl. The thing I learned that night is that cocaine makes my dick shrivel up like I was in freezing cold water. I had major shinkage going on. To further complicate matters, cocaine makes it extremely difficult for me to even get a semi. I did the cocaine because I heard it was a great sex drug. Boy was I wrong. The bottom line is that this girl made a comment about my dick (which was shrivel up like a mother). I know it was because of the cocaine but it’s stuck with me nonetheless.

Originally Posted by Invisible
:-k

7” BPEL is only 0.25” above where you are now. Take a look at that distance on a ruler. It’s barely noticeable. Why would that difference make such a big deal to you? It seems sort of silly: 6.75” = insecure vs. 7” = secure. Maybe the reason for your insecurity lies elsewhere.

BTW Stumpy, nice size. Your size is what I’m aiming for.

Originally Posted by Stumpy1
You are not the only one. And by the way, you are not small.

I feel the same way as you do BD, and more than likely nothing anyone can say will change the way we see our cocks. Look at it this way though if that insecurity helps to fuel your decision to PE then that is a good thing! I will not quit ever until I am happy besides this is my new hobby.

I agree with gottahv88 and Big Dipper. I still feel quite small although I have gained almost an inch, yet there are sometimes when I look at my cock and feel it is kind of normal and other times it just seems non-existent for me. I do think that the reason behind this insecurity is not only related to our size, but on the way we think.

I am with gottahv8 and wont stop PEing until I feel satisfied and proud with I have between my legs, doesn´t matter how long I take.


Was (july 07): 5.25 nbp (5.9 bp)X 4.5

July 10 :6.15 nbp (6.65 bp)X 4.8

Goal: 6.75 nbp (7.1 bp) x 5.1 Final goal : 7.25 nbp x 5.3

Originally Posted by Big Dipper
Good point. I guess 7” has a nice ring to it. Maybe I should be going for 7.5” BPEL.

Some of this is stemiming from a situation I experienced a while ago. I live in Chicago and was out partying. I ended up doing a shitload of cocaine (which I’ve never done before) while drunk. I ended up going home with this girl. The thing I learned that night is that cocaine makes my dick shrivel up like I was in freezing cold water. I had major shinkage going on. To further complicate matters, cocaine makes it extremely difficult for me to even get a semi. I did the cocaine because I heard it was a great sex drug. Boy was I wrong. The bottom line is that this girl made a comment about my dick (which was shrivel up like a mother). I know it was because of the cocaine but it’s stuck with me nonetheless.


That’s a very good insight. What you have experienced is an example of one-trial learning. This is more likely to happen in a situation involving novelty and heightened emotionality (such as a first cocaine use). Long-term associations are likelier to form under such circumstances. An extreme example of this phenomenon is post-traumatic stress disorder. The insecurity with your size that has formed as a result of this, while milder than PSTD, is still unfortunate. There is therapy you can get that should be helpful. Maybe it’s premature right now but if you find yourself at 8” and you still feel the same, then maybe it’ll be time.

Look yourself from far away from mirror. You will see how everyone else sees you, I look much bigger than I thought.


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