Question about Jelqing
Hey all. This is my first post, but I have been a member for a while and I’ve been reading lots of threads and routines. I just want to say that I have been following the newbie routine (hopefully correctly) and it’s only been about two weeks, so I haven’t really checked if I had any length or girth gains, but it feels like the hardness of my erections has gotten even better. My girlfriend and I live in different states so we only get to see each other a couple times a month when we aren’t both at college (we attend the same uni.) but just a week after I started the newbie routine my girlfriend came to town and the first time we had sex she immediately commented that my penis was markedly hard. I am pretty sure I’ve been heating and stretching correctly and the increased hardness I believe is evidence of doing the kegels correctly?
My primary question is about the jelqing aspect. I feel as though this is one of if not the most important part of the newbie routine, but I really don’t feel like I’m getting it right. I followed the videos and all, but most people seem to say that when they start with their erection at 60% or so and keep jelqing, their erection gets harder. I’m experiencing the opposite. I get a little aroused so that my erection will go up to about 60-75%, then start the whole OK grip milking motion, but after about 30 seconds, my penis starts to get a little softer. It gets to the point where when I start with the bottom hand as the top hand reaches the tip, the bottom hand can even squeeze the base of the penis as you might grip a crushed toilet paper roll or something. I usually jelq laying down. Does the fact that the blood must then fight against gravity affect things? I’d appreciate any tips about jelqing in general since I read about people really finding their groove and knowing that they are doing it right, but I still have really no idea if I’m doing the right things. Thanks, and I’m glad to be a part of these forums. Hopefully I’ll post a bit more soon.