Wow, you are getting a lot of responses. I’ll throw in my 2 cents. If your E is bendable mid shaft, that’s different than being bendable at the ligament connections. I get pretty hard, but I can still get down to about 7 o’clock if I stick my butt out. But if it bendable mid shaft, I’d say work on some kegels. Also, there’s no shame in ballooning while having sex. Make an OK sign with your thumb and index finger and hold it at the base, as close to the pubic bone as possible. Relax the grip simultaneously while kegeling, then grip it back up. Balloon it up until rock. She’ll love it.
I’ve found out that in missionary position, I don’t even need to use the OK all the way around to get it ballooning. I just use index and middle fingertips together to press the fat pad up against the PB and then try and rub the clit with the shaft as I go in and out. It balloons that way, too.
Oh, by the way, if you want to try an herbal, take 2 yohimbe capsules 2 hour before sex. You’ll get huge and hard. (But after sex, you won’t sleep worth a damn.) I only do that on the weekends if I’m certain sex is in the cards for the night! LOL
Begin 12-28-08: BPEL:5.8 EG:4.75
Current 2-08-09: BPEL:6.0 EG:4.90
1st Goal_____: BPEL:7.0 EG:5.50