Psyching myself up or out

So I finally decided enough was enough. Yeah I’m supposedly average at 6” BPEL (going to measure very precisely if I start this) but I sure as hell don’t feel average. I always said if I could be 7” I’d be happy. Well searching around found the whole jelqing thing on Wikipedia which led me here. I am amazed at all the gains that people make and it sounds like 1” is possible without turning this into some life-interrupting experience. I do have some concerns but think I’m going to make the dive in. I don’t want to accidentally give myself ED or some dick deformation but I figure if I stick to the newbie routine then I should be good to go. It sounds like you can stick with the newbie routine and just change intensity and get some pretty good results over a reasonable period of time. What do you guys think?

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Is it really easy to overdo it and cause permanent damage with the jelq’s or anything that is done from inexperience would heal relatively quickly? Again, it would be a shame to try to do this and then permanently break my dick :) . Don’t want to go too easy and show no progress nor too hard and inadvertently have issues. I know this is a constant mantra on here, but this is the newbie section :) .

Read my threads on EQ and PIs linked at the bottom of this post. Then just add the attitude of treating like brushing your teeth, not life and death and you will do fine. One inch is a very achievable goal. OH yeah, welcome to Thunders!

Yes you can overdo it and cause permanent damage. - Read This First: Warning To Newbies

It is far smarter and safer to UNDER DO it at first, then to over do it. Treat this like a marathon and not a sprint and you will be fine.

Thanks for the link! I read your other links a few times before (and will again) because I want to make sure I’m in tune with the changes and sensations that are going on. That link is truly mortifying because supposedly in a small percentage of cases you can cause problems with doing everything right. It sounds like skydiving sort of! I wish there were some indicators of if you were predisposed to this problem or not. I have enough psychological causes of ED at this point that maybe I’ll just try it anyway and worse case have to pump it up to get it up if I totally break the damn thing—but god what a mortifying thought.

Hi,

Adding one inch is eminently doable. Aside from that fraction of a percent that seem to not gain from PE no matter what they do I think that everyone can gain an inch. And we have had enough guys that stuck with it over months and even years of no gains before finally dialing it in to the exact thing that worked for them and finally, finally gaining that perhaps everyone can gain.

You have a safety first attitude as well, which makes you a perfect candidate for PE in my opinion. The other attribute you should cultivate for PEing is self monitoring skills. 9 times out of 10 guy that hurts himself had a warning from his wang and chose to ignore it.

Welcome to Thunders. Look around the place, we have lots of things in addition to the penis stuff. Plenty of guys get life saving/changing advise on a variety of topics in these forums. Goofy as heck for a dick pulling community but true none the less. Something about joining a fraternity of penis enlargers lowers a guys natural BSing defenses and encourages self honesty as well. Plus we have pictures of neekid girls too.

The boss has compiled a PE cheat sheet for you, START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info , which helps a lot given the size of our archives. If you can’t find the info you need don’t hesitate to ask; but, 98% of the time you will find your PE questions answered in these links.

I have read some injury reports that sound very genuine so I think that permanent serious injuries are quite possible. The problem is, it is hard to get a handle on how prevalent permanent serious injuries are. We all know that driving a car or flying on an airplane entails significant risk of serious injury and death, but most of us make the judgement that the risk is small and acceptable and do it anyway.

I think if you start out slowly and gradually ramp up the intensity you will have little risk of any serious injury with the basic exercises. Don’t try stuff like hanging, clamping, and Ulis for a long time, if ever. Kegel as often as you think about it. You might not see measurable changes for a while so don’t get discouraged.

I have been doing PE for about 2 years. I have gained nearly 1 1/2 inch in length and about 1/4 inch in girth. I would attribute about 1/2” of the length gain to an improvement in EQ than to actual physical expansion of the collagenous envelope of the penis.

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So I finally decided enough was enough. Yeah I’m supposedly average at 6” BPEL (going to measure very precisely if I start this) but I sure as hell don’t feel average. I always said if I could be 7” I’d be happy.

Welcome. You are average actually and maybe slightly above for length according to statistics on line. The biggest mistake everyone makes is assuming average is impressive or big in any way. Average is not Big, and is actually like a guy having a dick in between a medium big size and large small size. So you are actually right smack in the middle with an average penis, which transfers into as being as impressive as a C grade in a very difficult course you worked really hard for, which is nothing to scoff at, but is definitely not anything to be proud of if you have an ego; at all really in my opinion. I actually take pride in seeing things for what they really are from a penis size related sociological standpoint.
There are going to be others who don’t care about size, and those people just don’t any better the way I see it. They haven’t done their homework. Just stick to TP and PE and you won’t have to dwell in this world of worry and hurt anymore. That world is almost a memory for me now.

I’ll be happy with 7, but if I turn out to get 7.5 I won’t complain :) . Part of my current issue is exactly what you are referring to. I often don’t get fully up-up with others anymore, so my 6-er is more like a 4.5-5’er. Ironically, like most guys probably, the size of my partner is irrelevant. I’ve had sex with guys with 4” and guys with 8.5” ers and they were all fine. There is something about being average, or it seems less than average, that is just getting to me. As I always say, if you don’t like something then try to change it.

Just remember that PE is a game of finesse, not force. It is a long process, so take your time and take it easy.

I’m sorry, you’ve had sex with other guys? You are gay? Please don’t take offense, i don’t mind at all, just want to make sure we’re on the same page.

Yep. 100% gay here. Never had sex with a woman and never had the desire to. I can’t be the first one on this board, am I? :)