PSD dot com victim

Hi, first post, whutup!

I am glad I found this place. Lets get down to the nitty gritty. I’m 21. I hadn’t been having sex for about a year and it was driving me crazy enough as it was and then I discovered that infamous site penis size debate .com. It got me thinking, it got me worrying.. About a month ago I was a little depresed I think, realizing of course what exactly the reason was for my complete lack of success with women.. I used to be a freak man I would think of all kinds of nasty stuff, but now thats shutoff and I am relegated to thinking about all aspects of sex in terms of penis size. So I’m somewhere drunkenly watching byron lee and mandingo movies, crying, trying to figure out how I could move to asian country asap.

Well I found this place and I am optimistic about the future.

I am gonna start doin the excercises, (newbie routine) I’ve been kegeling for a good minute now

I have a penis that is uncircumcized and measures 6 inches long, 5 around.

And I still have a problem. See I want to holla at these women. I even do, I get numbers, I do all that. But I’m scared. So so scared. Plus, I hae a bit of a preference I’ve noticed, and it’s not all the time.. But I think it’s worth analyzing.. I usually holla at the sisters. And as a disciple of PSD dot com, and after evaluating moan power and eye twitch velocity of porn stars africa and ebony ayes (among others) as they get busy with various sized schlongs, and after having a dream where all I could hear was beyonce singing “and he carries big things if you know what I mean” over and over again (plus theres a soca song that goes “woman like big doggie man, big doggie man!”) well I’m convinced that I’m gonna not be big enough for the average black woman.

Well I’m emasculated and sexually crushed right about now..

So anyway how did yall overcome this “pre pe intimidation” or whatever it is that iam having. Which is: I don’t want to wait. I want a relationship now. (Or a fuck buddy I mean, whatever I guess) but I’m just nervous about my ability. I’m sexually inexperienced as it is, virgin till a year ago when some angel decided to atack me at a friends cousins boyfriends house.. And ever since then it has been a downward spiral of platonic relationships followed by the website discovery.

So is the “idea” to get some woman and humorously explain to her that the “d” will be getting bigger and bigger over the course of our time together? I mean obviously not upfront but maybe when the subject of sex comes up, or possibly after a sexual encounter.

Insanity!

Peace and goodnight

Welcome to Thunder’s, sparrow.

I would suggest that you never say anything about cock size — yours or anyone else’s — when you talk to women, even after you’re sexually involved with them. I would suggest the same thing no matter what size you were — tiny or huge! No good comes from cock-talk. You can read countless threads here to learn about that :)

Now the fact is, as you know by now, that your dick is utterly average-sized. You have nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. Do PE if it will give you more confidence, but don’t be held back in the meantime. There are tons of guys with dicks MUCH smaller than yours who please scores of women all the time, without a second thought to their cocks.

Regarding your concerns about race and size: That topic has been discussed here many times. Try a search. My own advice would be: don’t worry about it.

Oh, finally — a lot of PSD.com is tongue-in-cheek. The guy is obviously over-the-top in many sections.

You are building and reinforcing insecurities based on a dream, a joke web site with made up studies, and the reaction of porn actresses?

Bringing up weiner size in any context with a woman you are interested is a bad thing. You will come across as immature and insecure no matter how clever you think you are being. Bring up penis size when you are hung like a horse and you will come across as immature, insecure, and arrogant all at the same time.

Never ask if she has had bigger. Never ask if you are big enough. Never ask what size she prefers. No matter how clever a way you think you have come up with to broach the subject the woman will see you as an immature, insecure, scared little boy in a mans body.

mighty sparrow:

Welcome to Thunder’s!

In the words of a wise man: “Only a fool breaks his own heart”. :leftie:

What you might need is a Real World Reality Check.

GM

Wow. Powerfully stated — the perfect response for every time this comes up.

Man, I feel like SUCH a dumbass for some of my past actions in this regard. Of course, I don’t think every woman is as judgmental as you’re describing, but I agree 100% that no good will come of cock-talk.

TRUE!!

Lol.. And thanks for the link.

Iamaru, good words of encouragement, thanks. And I was halfway joking about where I got the insecurities from. I think it was mainly the buildup of sexual tension over time.

This is all very encouraging talk but I tell you something. Sisters on average need bigger than white girls. Man if you run into one of the hang-with-my-girls-all-day-at-the-club-crew type girl you gonna be punked like a rockstar on MTV. I’m speaking of experience so make sure you use proper judgement and don’t pick one of those.

Word up^^^ but they not all like that although I know what you mean.

I got done with the first session tonight. A mi,llion questions, I probably shouldn’t ask them here, instead I should probably search.. Just not sure if I’m doing anything right as far as jelq stewngth and stretch strength.

I warmed up

Did stretches fr 5 or 7 minutes (I was messing up so I added a little extra time) just a few down a few up two to each side and a few around with overhand ok grip all the time.

Halfway through ten minutes of the jelqing realized I had no idea what percentage of erection I have. But I think I got it right

I was pulling down for the jelqs though not varying it.

Then I did some jai stretches but soon stopped because I didnt want to over do it. I figured they would be good after the jelqs.

Anyway thanks for putting up with the redundancy yall!

Then we can assume that the “sisters” are more disappointed
on average than white girls? Since we have busted the myth of the black
penis many times on this forum.

Oh my last question was regarding the foreskin and when to stop the jelq. I was just kinda pulling my hand over the glans along with the skin, and not really pulling the foreskin back each time, I just let it be. But sometimes I would pull it back, it just slowed me down trying to corrct it is all.