Problem

Hello, everyone. First of all, I would want to apologize for my English. Ok. So here’s the problem. Kinda weird but after 1 month of PEing it seems like my penis became smaller. And this changes happened just in one week. By the way, when I was 16 or smth my penis was 16 cm. Now I’m 20 and its 14,5. Right now its not even that.. I do standard newbie routine. Moreover, just in one week it became near impossible to reach 100% EQ.

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Don’t worry, you haven’t gotten smaller. The lower measurement is most likely due to reduced EQ. You’re probably just overworked. Take a week or two off until your EQ returns and start on the linear newbie routine (NEW newbie + advanced routine). The old one seems to be too rough for you.

Mind your pressure and force when jelqing and stretching. You’re better off going too light than too hard in the beginning.

What Serenity wrote.

:confused: Perhaps you measured wrong or have grown a belly since then?

Probably you are right. I’m so stupid.. I started doing PE long time ago but never did it consistently. 1 month on, 2-5 off. That’s why I decided to add horse squeezes to my daily routine. 3 days on/ 1 off. What an idiot. A few days ago I noticed some red dots on the penis. It is probably some kind of an injury. Earlier I could reach rock erection in a few seconds. Now it takes 2-3 minutes (and not guaranteed). Erection problems seem so funny because I’m on roids.

Blood vessels shrink when your penis is healing. You’ve probably notices some dark spots a well. Just take a few days off and edge edge edge.

Iamary, nope, I’m very athletic.

TheGreatDivider, yes. Yesterday red spots turned into dark. I can’t jelq properly. I reach 60-80% erection but after doing a few strokes the pressure is gone. I don’t know what to do.

I’m hopeless lol. 20 yrs old, good looking, athletic and.. Virgin :( .

Stop complaining for one. Let yourself heal…. and develop enough self confidence to not care about sex.

- Should only take you ten minutes ;)

andy, looking at all those Ys in your username makes me dizzy.

And you’re not hopeless. There is no rule that you have to have sex by a certain age, or even that you have to have sex at all.

But if you’re virginity stems from lack of confidence, then you need to get that fixed. You are good-looking after all (I’ll take your word for it).

Makes me wonder why, why, why, why? ;)

eponymous is right about trying not to connect virginity with a lack of confidence.

In my opinion it takes more strength and confidence to wait for the right time and right partner. :)

The longer you wait, the more nervous and uncomfortable you will get. Right time? Since now is the only ‘time’ that exists, how could there be any better ‘time?’ It’s sex, not a space shuttle launch. If the girl is cute and you’re into her, how could it be more ‘right?’ There’s no strength in waiting. Anyone can just sit around ‘waiting’ for the ‘right’ person… it’s just an excuse or a procrastination tool. If you want something, or someone, you gotta make it happen. The strength that women like is a man going for what he wants - for that takes real discipline.

You’re 20, you’re on the late bloomer end of things… but still not to the age where it’ll be weird. Get out there and have some fun, man! Focus on having a good time and being present with the people you’re with, approach some ladies and do the same, it’ll happen. Woman love sex too. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. Peace.

The “right” time is when you know you want it for yourself.

The “wrong” time is doing it because you are pressured into thinking that’s what is expected.

Decide what you want and why you want it and go from there.

Eponymous, I had to choose nickname like that. I decided to put so many “Ys” in order to not get annoyed with “this nickname is already in use” blablabla. Keep it easy.

Thanks for all your support, guys, but I don’t care about sex. I know that sooner or later it will happen. Maybe tomorrow, maybe.. Who knows? I just want to find a girl that I will really love. But it’s not easy. I can’t be with a girl just because she is cute. There are thousands of them :) . And to be honest, I don’t feel uncomfortable. I’m OK. Yes, I said “I’m hopeless”. I was kidding.

People sometimes wait to have sex for many valid reasons. You may not be familiar with those reasons, and I won’t list them, but they do exist. It’s not necessarily procrastination. In fact that the first time I’ve heard that reason. I’ve never heard anybody say “I want to, but I just haven’t gotten around to it yet” about sex.