Premature ejaculation problem

Hello.
At first, please move this thread into Mans health section, couldn’t do it on my own.

I’ve got really problematic issue with premature ejaculation. For over 2 years I suffered because of that, its been worse and better, almost cured this half a year ago with SSRI but didn’t finish my treatment and it came back after few months.
However, my sex always lasts at least 5 minutes with way longer rounds after alcohol. This is how it used to be. Around 5 days ago had morning sex, don’t really like that, EQ and keeping my load was always a little problem but that time I just went in, moved 10 times or so, around 30 seconds, went out and ended everywhere. Thought “shit happen” and after 15 minutes started the new one. This time it took me.40 seconds with the same result, didn’t feel anything positive, sperm just came out of my penis without any pleasure or anything. Again, thought it was just a bad day but made a decision to found a thread about curing premature ejaculation here.
It was about edging with no ejaculation, found it awesome, used to edge from time to time while being alone in the home, always took me plenty of time to reach happy end + my erection was always great then.

It’s important to mention, it was same day when I had those 2 “fires” that morning.
After few hours, went the bathroom and started edging. It was never good thing for me, in my room I can sit at comfortable chair but the bathrooms means standing while my parents and brother goes around doors.(anything about difference between sitting and standing ?)
Started to do my work, most of the time use sex films with my fiancee etc, works best to get erection while it was always really tough to get hard one in the bathroom. For around 8-10 minutes(super short, usually edged for over 30-40) with finding my trigger points, most sensitive causing “good feeling” and trying to make that feeling go away it happened again. I didn’t feel nothing but sperm going out of penis, none “orgasm” signs like squeezed prostate(idk how to explain it better, I can bet You guys know what I mean), it just went out. Took a second, with no “sperm pressure”, can’t call it a shot even. It’s frustrating, edging worked always great, shot was awesome and EQ, this time wasn’t. I was damn pissed off at myself, took another round 5-6 hours later and it was exactly the same. Didn’t feel anything “before ejaculation”.

Next day thought I might have been tired yesterday, it’s new day, new chance with becoming better. Waited till I get more privacy and started edging session in my bathroom with good attitude. 5 minutes and boom, it happened again, more sperm as it was my first ejaculation this day but all symptoms were the same. Tried 2 more times that day and everything was the same for god sake.

Yesterday didn’t touch my buddy at all, went to my fiancee apartment and got a little drunk, anyway, didn’t have sex. When we woke up today after few hours started really short foreplay(as usually, she hates that at morning) and for the first time in my life I short exactly 3 seconds after my penis found that warm place we all want. 2 moves, took him out and fired in my hands. Got super angry at myself but my fiancee just talked to me what’s wrong with no “bad words”.
Talked to her, told that I tried some PE for over a month(which she hated, “your penis is fine”) and then I found some possible reasons:

-My PE exercises were different all the time, tried wet/dry with ok/overhand grip jelqs, simple manual stretches and for 10 days Tom’s routine, which found easiest to do. Maybe this is a problem, I overdo/ my technique was shitty and I messed up something ?

- Had tons of stress from few months(most likely reason why SSRI didn’t work, if I add to this way less chances to have sex and not getting whole amount of pills)

-Since I remember, before sex, while being erected always felt like I needed to pee. Talked to the urologist, gave me some natural pills and thought it’s okay then. But, when I think of it now, its like I feel the pressure all the time in my penis, like someone was touching sides and the bottom. When getting hard the feeling changes to something like the sperm is already inside my buddy, I don’t know how to describe this, feeling like there was something else then blood inside. It’s super easy for me to get an erection, really sometimes need only 30 sec of kissing and it’s hard with that feeling.

- During orgasm always felt that squeezed prostate as I mentioned earlier. Now I don’t,

I’m going to visit an urologist to check what could cause that. If he would say that everything is okay, visiting my sex doctor for the pills would be next step.
However, needed to write it down here, at Thunder, maybe someone could say anything about this, simply can’t think of anything else from now on.

Sorry for the double, I’m honesty confused and scared what might cause that. Is there any chance anyone know what’s going on?

Being nervous and on edge about it can actually make the problem worse. You should investigate some relaxation and deep breathing techniques to try to overcome it. I don’t see how PE could have caused this problem.

Right now trying to let my buddy rest a little, won’t even touch him. My only concern is to get my sex quality back, don’t mind PE or not yet. I don’t know if it’s because stress but pressure at the bottom of penis and around is worse, feel it all the time, not exactly painful but strange and it’s connected with kegels somehow, because when I squeeze my PC I feel exactly the same part of penis I mentioned earlier

First of all, don’t be stressed during sex.
It’s hard to do after such experience, but be yourself and don’t think during sex. “Am I good? Am I going to cum? Nooooo, don’t cum!” and there’s 99% chance that you’ll cum earlier. Besides, just do it and feel it.
Thinking a lot in sex isn’t good thing, especially thinking about something bad.

PE can be a problem, but the difference should be such small, that you won’t suffer from premature ejaculation. In my opinion, bigger penis= bigger area for friction and better confidence (“I’m bigger, I’m such a stud!”). But, it could be difference from example: 15-20mins to about 10-15, so no problem.

Edging is good for longer sex. I know that most important is experience: you know when you are in 90% way to blow, so you change position or slow the pace of thrusting or do something else. Then, You can shoot whenever You can (not at all- after an hour it can be hard to stay hard/pound at speed to cum).

Also, read about how to locate BC (not PC) muscle, as good as IC muscle. Read thread “How to locate BC muscle” or something like that.

As I read correct, You said you shoot without cumming. I’ve got similar experience during edging/ballooning, so it shouldn’t be a problem. But, if you have some pain-like feeling, it’s good to see urologist.

Maybe this would help.

Thanks for answers guys!
It’s already better, visited my urologist today.
USG showed some edema of my deferent canal(Idk if this is how to name it, one of two canals with sperm). This is what probably caused everything, shoot after genre seconds, pain and none orgasm feelings.
Few days of antibiotics and should be fine.

Had sex yesterday and it was good either, even with that painful spot, hope everything is gonna be great after taking those pills.
At least now I know I had some reason to panic : p