That’s effed up man. First of all, it’s Dr’s orders that there is ZERO sexual intercourse for 6 weeks after my son was born. She enduring some minor tearing, which of course called for stitches, so you’re off your friggin’ rocker if you think I’m going to put my wife through pain for my selfish needs.
As for Rootcap, well, I’m sorry you feel like you have to mess with a woman’s mind to validate your manliness. My wife loves and respects me, and I don’t need to play mind games with her to make her want me. When I was 21 and picking up girls at the bar then I’m all for playing puppet master, but my wife deserves more respect than that, because she shows it to me. I appreciate the “advice”, but I’ll pass.
You’ve got a good head on your shoulders! If you’re loving and confident, the previous advice was unnecessary and incorrect.
Regarding your shower incident, my wife has done similar after periods of no sex for a while. Some of it is just the time factor, some of it has been size increase and EQ and some of it has been confidence levels. If she’s wantin’ it, that’s what counts!