Positive Feedback from the Wife

That’s effed up man. First of all, it’s Dr’s orders that there is ZERO sexual intercourse for 6 weeks after my son was born. She enduring some minor tearing, which of course called for stitches, so you’re off your friggin’ rocker if you think I’m going to put my wife through pain for my selfish needs.

As for Rootcap, well, I’m sorry you feel like you have to mess with a woman’s mind to validate your manliness. My wife loves and respects me, and I don’t need to play mind games with her to make her want me. When I was 21 and picking up girls at the bar then I’m all for playing puppet master, but my wife deserves more respect than that, because she shows it to me. I appreciate the “advice”, but I’ll pass.

I agree with you that is fucked up. Been married 20+ years and have had sex daily, however our first kid wife needed an episiotomy. We were told to wait 6 weeks though we could only hold out for 4. Shit happens outside of our control that prevents sex. I still remember the Doc explaining it to me and me asking if she stitched her up tight. Not one of my better moments.

Proud of you son.

Although is better to wait for pussy to heal, the better it heals the tighter it is.

Hey Zack and others here: I’m wondering if once you figure this out, you might share - how much does childbirth really affect how sex feels for the both of you? I’ve never been with a woman who has had a child, particularly not before and after the birth of a child.

I see some on here saying that sex is more painful for her right after. I’ve heard plenty say that childbirth makes her feel more loose. And I know people suggest kegels for her to get back to pre-pregnancy mode.

Anyway, it would be nice to hear from someone who is right in the middle of the process.

And congrats on the new baby!

There wasn’t any difference before or after the birth of my two kids. My second wife delivered c-section.

I had a fling in my younger days who had a child that she gave up for adoption when she was only 18 years old. She was obviously a few years removed from that, but her pussy was noticeably looser than most I’ve had. That’s not to say anything bad, because the sex was still outstanding. She was super into fitness/running/yoga too though, so that might have had something to do with it?

I’ll report back when my wife and I have sex again, for sure.

Was just having this conversation with my GF the other day..She said she tried to have sex with her husband after bout a month after…hurt too much…had to wait another month…She claims that after that she feels the sex is as tight as before…doesnt notice a difference..Also says..that she couldnt cum vaginally until after giving birth..i found that pretty interesting.
i personally havent been with anyone both BEFORE and after childbirth(my wife had c-section)But personally,ive slept with a decent amount of women…and havent noticed any discernable difference in tightness ,with ones who have and ones who havent given birth.

Being super into fitness/running/yoga should give her better muscle tone and should, all else being equal, make her feel a little tighter than she might otherwise.

My wife is as tight after childbirth as she was before.. And thanks to PE becoming a bit tighter every day :-)

Intuitively, I’d think the same thing. However, in my personal experience this hasn’t been the case. Another way to look at it is that fit girls have all their hormones and and chemical balance perfect, leading to sexual responsiveness, lots of natural lube, and vaginal dilation.

Of course, the topic has come up dozens of times around here, with us never really coming up with a way to predict how tight a female is going to feel, aside possibly from age/sexual experience, and even that seems to be a weak indicator at best.

Hey guys, slight update here:

Still haven’t broken through the 6 week no-sex moratorium (hoping to have her cleared this week!), but we did get to take our first shower together since the baby was born on Saturday morning. My wife was soaping me up, and things easily progressed to her hands grabbing my semi and stroking me to full erection. More verbal affirmation followed, and she giggled and said “I SWEAR baby, it’s like your cock has just gotten HUGE since the last time we had sex!” Obviously I thought to myself that this PE stuff is the real deal! One hot, wet handjob later with a big cumshot on her tits was just icing on the cake. :-)

Hey Zack, is she offering you any BJ’s???

scienceguy, not so much. She’s never been too keen to perform oral, which quite honestly should have been a red flag back when we were dating since it’s one of the things I love most in this world (ironic, eh?). But, I love her and am willing to look past it. Many women (I’m told) have a sexual awakening as they age, so I’m hoping her libido gets a charge one of these days…

My wife had a sexual slumbering. BJ’s were a regular deal early on, then began to fade over time. Years later she finally confesses that she doesn’t like to give them. She’ll still do it but she goes out of her way to make it seem like a chore, which really kills it for me. So now I just pass..