Pleasure from cervix only

So my wife threw a curve ball at me last night. She told me she doesnt receive pleasure from vaginal wall stimulation. For the past nine years I’ve been sending my hips/thrust in so many directs for nothing.

Apparently she thought it was normal ( which I guess it is for some women) to only receive pleasure from bumping her cervix. Now I’m not sure what I should focus on now….pointless girth that brings no pleasure or additional length to hit the cervix easier without going balls deep.

Anyone else in a similar situation?

Hitting the cervix is very painful and not the goal. You have to discover the angle that allows deepest penetration without banging the cervix.

“Pointless girth that brings no pleasure” ??? Oh my god. You are truly deceived my friend.

Well you know what I mean. Pointless in the sense that she says she feels the penis stretching the walls but there’s no pleasure unless I bump her cervix deep in the back.

Have you tried fingering her G-spot? If not, try it. You can work this area with your member as well. It seems odd that only “bumping her cervix” is pleasurable.

Hell maybe you’re right and I don’t have quite enough girth to stimulate the right spots.

It may be that you have TOO much girth and her vagina becomes numb or is unable to feel the inside-out motion because of massive girth? Anyway, have you tried her feet to her ears position? What are your stats?

My wife loves her cervix being hit/flicked.. It takes less than 20 seconds for her to have massive all-body orgasms if I fuck her in such a way that this happens.. Horses for courses it would seem..

Hah, massive girth - that’s funny. Ive got a case of cone penis with 5-1/4 for the first two inches then it tapers to 5 midway and 4-5/8 right under the head. Length is 6-7/8.

We have plans to fool around later and focus on positions specifically targeting that spot. We’ll see how it goes.

Oz, glad to hear someone else’s woman finds it pleasurable. Seems they’re all built differently.

If she lays face down on the floor and I enter from behind at an angle that puts pressure on the g spot, she can orgasm but says it gives her a massive headache for some reason. Only happens with this spot oddly enough.

oz, were you always able to hit her cervix easily, or did you have to grow beyond your original size before it really started happening? Just curious.

@sentii,

Yes, and interestingly, using a similar position to The Beginner above.. I have her lay on her stomach, legs together with her butt raised to give me a better entry angle.

At that point I have her relax and she lies prone on the bed. I straddle her butt cheeks, (knees outside her hips), and thrust horizontally. At the end of each thrust, i.e. when fully inserted, I slightly move forward,
this has the effect of forcing the base of my cock hard up against the entry point towards her butt hole, this pushes the head and shaft down towards the front wall of the vagina and if I angle it right I can feel it “catch”
then flick past the cervix. She will last about 5-10 of these flicks before she totally gushes all over the bed.. It’s definately *not* the G_Spot..

Hope this helps..

Oz.

oz, sounds like you have a total babe in bed with you !!!

Thebeginner, you seem to misinformed on female anatomy.

Very simple anatomy lesson here, the clitoris extends it’s roots to the labia minora and into a U-shape in front of the urethra. This is where fingering her with a come hither motion gets her off. Past the urethra you have the anterior and posterior fornix’s which are really just above and below the cervix. The only difference between the two is the anterior is easier to access by deeper penetration in missionary position and the posterior is easier to access with doggy style.

The only reason you may be giving her pain by hitting her cervix is if she’s at an angle where her ovaries are constricted. So if you go deeper without hurting her, you either do her doggy style and leaning forward/lying doggy style or missionary with a pillow unter her hips. After she comes the first time her ovaries and cervix will relax enough for your to fuck her any which way. And the cool thing you probably didn’t know is that the cervix dips down into the vagina when she’s having an orgasm and relaxes a little.

My wife is the same. She says clit/g spot stimulation feels good, but she cant orgasm from it. She does from deep penetration though.