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Personal Question

Personal Question

Hey PE’rs. I have a couple questions about edging and etc.

If deemed important to whom ever may be curious. I am 18 years old. I am uncut and my frenulum is extremely sensitive. A couple of minutes of intercourse and I’m already overly stimulated. I began edging the other day and I discovered that I can completely stop my load with a strong kegel. My questions are:

1. Am I going too far into the PONR? Should I not have to stop my load like that? Because I read in a previous thread that I should relax that muscle with a reverse kegel. But I am certain that I’d nut everywhere.

2. Should I balloon rather than edge? I figure it would make a lot of sense to rub the sensitive areas to that point where I’m going to nut so the spots would calm the hell down and disassociate themselves with busting a nut.

3. Will edging help my load shoot rather than ooze out of my penis. The oozing is whack. I’m trying to shoot far.

4. Also, should I use my mind instead of porn for edging?

Thanks, guys. It’s my first post ever.

I’m not an expert of edging, so take my answers with a grain of salt:

1. I don’t think so;

2. I don’t think it is going to work; but you can give it a try.

3. Not an easy answer. Too much Kegeling seems to cause an incomplete peeing - I mean, it seems some drop of urine remains after having pissed; maybe it is caused by a too high tone of PC muscles. So, maybe too much edging can have similar results : an increase of oozing instead than a decrease.

4. I don’t think it makes much difference other then the time you need to do your session.

1. I would not reach the PONR. Reaching the PONR, then kegeling to hold of the ejaculation is not what I am after when edging. I am trying to train myself to become accustomed to the higher levels of arousal. I back off of myself when I am a few strokes close to the PONR. I try to kegel as little as possible during any sexual activities. But to each his own when PEing.

2. What you described is how I edge. When stimulating one spot on my dick gets me too aroused or close to the PONR, I back off for a couple of seconds to let myself cool down. Then start up again but stimulating a different spot. This I think is a key part of edging, it lets you get used to feeling sensations all over your dick rather than in one spot ( which is not similar to sex at all…. )

3. I have no idea. For myself when I edge for like 10 - 20 mins and then cum I shot a great distance further than if I was going for a quick 5 min monkey spank.

4. That one is up to you. There are plenty of threads filled with information on here to help you make that decision. Personally it is as little porn as possible these days.

Your welcome, hope I helped. Keep on Keeping on.

Thank you guys sooooo so much.

I think if you’re in any doubt the best course would be to consult your GP/family doctor. It’s fairly normal for a guy of your age to get pretty horny on a daily basis and what’s normal in terms of ejaculation speed varies a lot from one person to another. I once watched a DVD which featured a guy beating his meat for about 20 minutes before he finally came. It may be that he was an experienced porn star who knew various tricks as regards holding his load or perhaps a more likely explanation might have been that his ‘staying power’ was exaggerated by the way in which the event was filmed. The longest real masturbation session I’ve seen on film lasted just under 7 minutes. However it was on a website where I could get to ask the guy about it and he told me he’d done a fair bit of edging and that it hadn’t been continuous - he’d taken breaks etc during which he’d repositioned the camera. It had been edited in a way which suggested it was a longish continuous session when, in fact, it wasn’t. For what it’s worth I think cumming sooner rather than later is fairly normal. It might be an idea to time yourself and see how long it actually takes.

1. Am I going too far into the PONR? Should I not have to stop my load like that? Because I read in a previous thread that I should relax that muscle with a reverse kegel. But I am certain that I’d nut everywhere.

- I always practice stopping the load. I get right into the PONR then try to kegel stop it.

2. Should I balloon rather than edge? I figure it would make a lot of sense to rub the sensitive areas to that point where I’m going to nut so the spots would calm the hell down and disassociate themselves with busting a nut.
I think edging is more useful.

3. Will edging help my load shoot rather than ooze out of my penis. The oozing is whack. I’m trying to shoot far.
I think kegels will help you more with the long distance shots

4. Also, should I use my mind instead of porn for edging?

Yes. I find if I watch too much porn (more then once a week) then try to do a PE routine in the shower (where there is no porn) then I find it hard to concentrate and kind of boring and hard to get into


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