Hey, Sta-kool, thanks for your reply, here are my thoughts:
Well let me see if I can clarify some of my thinking, this is mostly for sleepy768, jackman1010, and mike4545. Because it seems like you guys are really wanting to believe this chart some tool on the internet made up.
I don’t believe that guy, I’m not sure what made you think that I do.
- We all want bigger dicks, that is why we are here. That is a given. So I don’t want any of you to put words in my mouth like “size doesn’t matter” or “you don’t need to PE”. Nor do I want to hear that I am “bashing guys with big dicks” I am not.
In case there’s some confusion, I was not referring to you as one of those people. Sorry if it sounded like I was, I’m not aware of you ever having said that.
- Daniel Rose does not say size doesn’t matter.
You could be more familiar with this person’s work, and overall message, and maybe it reflects what you’re saying pretty well, but I know that in the link, Dan says “a bigger dick doesn’t provide any extra physical stimulation” and that’s what I disagree with. It doesn’t mean I believe in a given chart, or think it’s porn dick or bust.
Jackman, I feel really bad for you, especially because you are torturing yourself needlessly. You are telling yourself a story that is not true. You need to break this cycle now, you are wasting so much time worrying about things that aren’t true that it is affecting your life in a hugely negative way. You’ve got to let go of your false perception that your dick is in adequate because it isn’t. You have talked yourself into impotence over something that is completely untrue.
You’re certainly right that I’d be better off if I could control my thoughts better, but there are some misconceptions. My ED is not psychological in nature, nocturnal Rigiscan tests have confirmed that. I actually didn’t worry about my size before I began to have ED and my inflation/size became smaller. Regardless of size the more important issue is erectile fortitude. Gotta get me some of that.
When/if I get my full erections back, I don’t know how big they’ll be, and I don’t really have much experience with a fully rigid dick of any size. I’ve only been with two girls when I had my full hard on, I’ve been with a good deal more since then, but that’s a very different experience.
I sure appreciate your advice. I think I read those threads that you just linked to a few years back, but I’ll check them out again this evening. They might be helpful, I think that there are probably some similarities, at least at an emotional level, between having a penis that doesn’t get fully hard, and having a penis that is on the smaller side. I’ve got the first problem, and I honestly don’t know if I have the second. I know that 7 inches is a better than average length, but I have to admit that I do sometimes worry, that even if I got my full erections back someday, that where ever I ended up in girth, if it were in the 4.3-4.6 range I might still be in a range where sex is missing something. Thanks again.