Penetration Quality

For me right now, enlargement is secondary to making gains to one aspect of EQ that I don’t often (ever?) see mentioned; call it “penetration quality”: just how hard can I drive the head of my cock into the flat palm of one hand, while otherwise using no hands?

With even perfect (99.9th percentile) wood, I can’t really drive it in very hard, because my slightly upcurved cock will suddenly bend upwards, folding at about halfway along it’s length. At least this is true when my cock points upward (my palm pressing downward, me standing). If I pull my cock to horizontal or slightly below, pressing my palm toward me, then I can drive my cock into my hand with considerably greater force, until finally it folds, either upwards as before, or better since it doesn’t fold as severely, it folds in the opposite direction, downward. At the correct angle away from my body, the two folding tendencies are about equal and I can really drive it in hard. If it folds in the less usual, downward direction, then even with it folded, I can still generate a lot of force against my palm.

I guess there’s a lesson here for the aspiring cocksman, at least one not blessed with one of those wonderfully ramrod straight members: lovemaking position matters, particularly when first entering.

I think that most PE techniques (jelquing, stretching, edging and the like), and certainly a lot of masturbation methods, don’t really do anything to build PQ, and that some may actually act against it. Possible exceptions are PE methods aimed at increased girth, and I suppose those (not very well spelled out) methods to counteract natural curvature.

One technique that bears mention is the Uli, since the action there is not completely dissimilar to the ‘palm’ test I mention above—working with the bending of a nonflaccid cock.

I don’t pretend to know quite where I’m going with this, and would welcome discussion. I do know that I’m going to stop using any masturbation technique that ‘rewards’ me with an orgasm while my cock is anything but rock hard and able to exert penetration force, and I’ve also encouraged my partner to expect this of my cock too.

Those with no upward curve are at a disadvantage, certainly not blessed. I was very careful during PE to make sure I didn’t lose my upward curve which is so useful for female orgasm.. I don’t understand what you don’t like about it? Is it that your cock folds? I’ve never had that problem but perhaps you’re slamming your cock into one vaginal wall rather than sliding along each vaginal wall and letting your cock expand. I usually just tease for a while enjoying all the sensations of wet pussy touching each surface of my cock and relax and BREATHE (breathing is actually the most important thing you can get hung up on, all the way in all the way out) allowing it to fill completely, then when I’m close to orgasm and at full expansion, even the slightest slide feels amazing and pushes you towards 100% erection. Really focus on enjoying the feeling of your cock fully inflated and NOT bent, and get used to working it in that position. If you’re really fucking her good and your cock is getting big and solid, pull it out for a few seconds and let it pulse outside of your partner, kegeling lightly if you’d like. It should expand slightly more without the vagina squeezing it, and when you put it back in move it in slowly keeping it as inflated as you can. When you can slide it all the way and and all the way out at the right angle to keep the whole thing hard you shouldn’t have to worry about it. Then you can put it in deep and use her pussy lips like a light cock ring to inflate your cock more inside her and really impale her. When my cock is rock hard and throbbing, pointing 45 degrees above the horizontal it just looks so brutal and ready to split a woman down the middle, don’t hate your curve bro!

Thanks, Patch, for the words of encouragement. I can relate to much of what you write. I’m in my sixth decade of life with good EQ and a regular, loving partner. Mostly just musing here. I wonder, for face to face intercourse, wouldn’t a slightly downward curving (decurved) cock bump and press nicely on the female G-spot? As it does for us with rear entry?

Damn Patch, you’re making me horny, lol.

You guys are so over the top with defending the upward curve. It’s not that big of an advantage. Just garner some bed skills, inflate your pecker and have sex. Good things happen- I promise. No need for curves. Furthermore, I completely disagree that “men with straight dicks are at a disadvantage.” What’re you nuts?!