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Basically I believe I’m screwed. A girl recently told me she thought my dick was 5inches. She apparently didn’t think that was too small. Measuring I’m about 7.5fat press/bone press, 5.7meg, 6bg. As a blk guy I’m convinced I’m below avg. I also have a fat pad between 2.5 and 3inches. Currently working on that, but its not easy.

Erection Quality seems to be an issue as well. I think it may be more mental than physical. I’m constantly thinking my penis is small during intercourse.

I’ve been PEing for about 4wks. My goal is to lose weight and hopefully get to 8x6 with 100% EQ.

My head is also an issue for me, its about 4.5 inches and doesn’t match my girth.

Also, this girl told me the biggest dick she’s seen was 8in(side measurement). Must’ve been NBP. Thats the biggest, but my dick looks and feels like 5inches? I solicited these answers from her, and she gave me her honest opinion. She’s an escort btw.

I think I have that syndrome where as a blk guy I’m ashamed because I don’t have whats known as a bbc.

After my little cross examination of this girl, she actually admitted that I was the 8th of 9 smallest blk guys she’s had. But insisted I wasn’t too small and my dick was a good size. I don’t believe the last part.

I’m pretty sure there isn’t any evidence that black men actually are larger on average. I remember reading somewhere that the average penis size by race is more or less the same, but black men have a much flatter bell curve of penis size distribution. Meaning there are more larger black penises, but also more small black penises.

That being said, 7.5 BPEL by 5.7 MEG is not in any way small for any race. That’s a big unit, no questions asked. The only issue is that you have a large fat pad, which you are working on. Once you get rid of that, you’ll see that you have much more than average. Start on the newbie routine to increase EQ.

As for her comments on size, fuck that. Who cares? Women bullshit like fuck about penis size. Everyone knows this. Measuring from the side is also an extremely generous way to measure. Guy is probably more like 7 NBP. Big but not insane. Get that fat pad down and you’ll go to one of her biggest.

Also small warning, although I’m not a mod, try to type out all words fully, the mods enforce proper grammar, punctuation and spelling here.

Thanks.

I didn’t think they were serious about that. I thought this forum would be more like a locker room or bar. Loose like.

We’re all assholes here too. But you write well, so I’m sure you’ll fit in with the rest of us.

You are above average (Penis Size: The True Average) but if you’ve read the stats, you know that but somehow don’t believe it.

There is a burden to being black when it comes to penis size. It seems to date back to when Europeans first entered africa and black men were thought of as a threat to white women. Quite why the idea that black men had bigger penises was supposed to be anything other than enticing to white women, I’m not sure. It’s fabrication and it’s perpetuated by porn which generally shows a terrible racial bias.

As an escort, this woman should be aware of what is normal and what is large. She is also much more likely to have come across many examples, so she’ll have hit a few large ones even given the small percentage of men with larger penises.

Your first problem is that you took what she said as a slur on your manhood. Your second problem is that you decided to discuss it on a PE forum which by default shifts expectations up.

If you can deal with the mental side and realise that you are perfectly well proportioned, then it’s a bit easier to decide whether you want to PE to add to those proportions.

Welcome to the forum.

Bottom line is you have a large fat pad and women have no knowledge or use for bone pressed measurements, so she was spot on or maybe even a little generous. The only thing at issue is your fat pad, not penis size. And hey man, with your starting stats and a lifestyle change you too can be the proud owner of one of those BBC’s. Also BBC’s aren’t common, you can see that easily from homemade porn. Put the work in to have what you want and you’ll have it. Good luck!

Yeah, you’re screwed. You entered our domain now.

You’re 7.5x5.7. And if I read between the lines correctly that’s not even with a full 100% rock hard erection. So you are already well above average, congratulations!

You speak of this girl. I say, with no due respect: fuck her. An escort is supposed to feel men good, not belittle them. Usually it’s meant to disempower you, to make her feel in control, and it’s definitely not meant to be true. She might have had bigger, but she definitely had smaller. She must have been a poor escort indeed.

And never, ever sollicit those questions from a woman. It’s poor taste, it shows you lack confidence and it is generally frowned upon by us. In the future, think of us when you try asking that again. I’m about your size, and thought I was smaller than average for a while too. Was I ever wrong. But I never asked around about it. Women lie about that, they always do.

You say you have a bit of a fat pad, can I conclude that you’re a bit overweight? If so, you have two factors working against you to achieve your optimal erection quality (EQ). The fact that you say your head is smaller makes me believe this too. It’s the last part of the penis that fully engorges.

1. Fat tissue produces estrogen, a “female” hormone that counteracts testosterone and makes a full erection harder to achieve. Better start doing that cardio ;)

2. Psychological factors. You need some confidence. I think working out + PE + a bit of sideline coaching from us will help.

You’ve started PE already, what routine do you follow?

I follow the jp90. Recently I’ve given myself some kind of hard line in my penis. Its like under the big vein. I’ve had them before. Usually after masturbating with ky. Never from normal, dry masturbation. This time it came from jelqing with ky. So I’m trying to rest for a week.

I’ve always wanted to know were I stood among size from a woman, but could never ask a woman I have to see daily. Ironically, this escort has almost become like a buddy of sort. I talk to her a few times a week. She calls me when she’s bored. No sex, just talking. That’s how all of this started. Apparently after I’ve seen her a few times, she began to get real comfortable talking to me. She’s young (20yrs old). She definitely wasn’t mean spirited when she said it. I honestly don’t think she thought I would get offended.

I also have been worried about my testosterone levels. Think I should have it checked.

There’s been times during edging when I look down and my penis feels kind of big. Sadly, this doesn’t happen much during actual intercourse.

Read a lot here and develop a solid routine. Your bigger than average starting out, so I wouldn’t worry about it.

Hey, Welcome to the club!!

You’ve got some really good advice from some excellent chaps, so listen.

You have some awesome starting stats, that some people here would kill for. Just imagine if you lost 2 inches of that fat pad, gained a little with PE… you’d be hung like a shetland pony.

Get your head sorted and you’ll be the dogs danglies!!!

Good luck!! :)

Do black men on average have larger penises than whites? From the little experience that I’ve had, would conclude that at least when talking flaccid, the answer is no. Upon graduating college, made a trip to the ‘big city’ to have a military draftee physical. Spent a half day in a group of a hundred other bare ass guys as we were prodded and poked. Probably 60 were blacks. Near the end, remember standing in front of the desk of a gruff old sergeant. He said, “Son, with your smarts and build, you should look into joining the special forces. And nice to see someone that shows these (offensive racial slur) that us white men aren’t all short cocked little pussies”. But really, the only black guy with an exceptionally long penis was very tall and skinny, and his flaccid was so thin that it looked like a strand of spaghetti dangling between his legs.

Sounds like you do have a large cock. TheCerealGuy gave you some sound advice. Follow it, and good things will happen. Welcome aboard, and best of luck to you.

Race plays no roll in meaningful penis size statistics. On the other hand stereotypes indicate black men are all hung.

Dear god, I’m buying whatever you use. Is manual clamping with my hand as good as clamping with a device?

I also gave myself some kind of bump on mg big vein when I was trying to hold blood into the shaft with my hand. That seems to have went away.

Welcome to Thunder's man.

Those could be small blood clots. They disappear over time, but you have to give them rest. That means no masturbation or prolonged edging ;)

Can they be deadly? I basically squeezed the base of my penis to hold blood in there.

I also like do stretches using my hand. Was able to get an 8.5 inch side measurement stretch. 8.1inch BP stretch on top of penis.