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PE: How much is too much

PE: How much is too much

I’m interested in eventually going well past 8” on length (non bone pressed), but now I have a few fears about that after reading the LPSG. It seems some women honestly don’t like it/ can’t handle it (although this may be a minority). Apparently, a man with a 7.5” penis can bottom out on most women (well, I saw claims on LPSG of this). There were a few men, 10”+ that said they were married to women with shallow pelvises, and they could never fully penetrate (which really they said really sucked).

So now, I have a real fear, that I’m going to meet a tight girl with a shallow uterus (under 6”)/ fall in love—and If I’m more than 8”x6” I won’t fit.

So here’s the question—you guys that have gone beyond 8”x6” (or that are close—on either measure) that are single—hows the reception of females? Are they really fawning over it, or do they run away in fear?

I read those long articles with all the celebrity and porn star females that say they want a guy that’s 8”x6”+, and I have read responses explaining that yes, females often estimate measurements wrong. On the other hand I’ve seen posts on LPSG about women that use dildo’s that know exactly what 8”x6” means—so I’m sure they won’t easily be fooled.

I know I’m a long way off, but this question is still very much on my mind: How much is too much?

I have often wondered the same thing, Im as well in going over 8 in nbp but I also fear to hurt the love of my live. It is kind of confusing as you said as many women claim to desire a big dick and that is what todays culture establishes but it would be interesting to know some experiences of the biggest members.


Was (july 07): 5.25 nbp (5.9 bp)X 4.5

July 10 :6.15 nbp (6.65 bp)X 4.8

Goal: 6.75 nbp (7.1 bp) x 5.1 Final goal : 7.25 nbp x 5.3

Originally Posted by blink2000
I’m interested in eventually going well past 8” on length (non bone pressed), but now I have a few fears about that after reading the LPSG. It seems some women honestly don’t like it/ can’t handle it (although this may be a minority). Apparently, a man with a 7.5” penis can bottom out on most women (well, I saw claims on LPSG of this). There were a few men, 10”+ that said they were married to women with shallow pelvises, and they could never fully penetrate (which really they said really sucked).

So now, I have a real fear, that I’m going to meet a tight girl with a shallow uterus (under 6”)/ fall in love—and If I’m more than 8”x6” I won’t fit.

So here’s the question—you guys that have gone beyond 8”x6” (or that are close—on either measure) that are single—hows the reception of females? Are they really fawning over it, or do they run away in fear?

I read those long articles with all the celebrity and porn star females that say they want a guy that’s 8”x6”+, and I have read responses explaining that yes, females often estimate measurements wrong. On the other hand I’ve seen posts on LPSG about women that use dildo’s that know exactly what 8”x6” means—so I’m sure they won’t easily be fooled.

I know I’m a long way off, but this question is still very much on my mind: How much is too much?


I’m nowhere near 8” NBPEL x 6” EG but I’ll chime in anyways. A while ago I put some thought into my own goals. You can read about it here: Final Goals. The post contains links of direct relevance to your question. Additionally, I just wrote another post that touches directly on the distorted thinking that goes into goal setting: Absolutist Thinking and Marginal Analysis. You might start by asking yourself why you chose that length as a goal in the first place.

(By the way, in the interviews with porn stars that I have read they all said that 7” was their ideal size.)

Originally Posted by dyablo
I have often wondered the same thing, Im as well in going over 8 in nbp but I also fear to hurt the love of my live. It is kind of confusing as you said as many women claim to desire a big dick and that is what todays culture establishes but it would be interesting to know some experiences of the biggest members.


I don’t mean to be insulting but you’re currently 6.4” NBPEL and you want to get to 8.3” NPBEL. You have a long way to go to get to that goal. Maybe you should have gone and actually had sex with a real woman at least once before deciding on that goal (dyablo - Puberty and penis size question). I think you would find you don’t need to be that big.

Originally Posted by dyablo
I definitely relate to many opinions and stories in this great forum. I felt the same way (and kind of feel the same way now) that my dick was very small.

I remember that I was actually considering suicide and I’m also 19 (about to turn 20) and I'm still a virgin not even a hand job yet. The best advise that I can give you is that you would be able to make your penis grow, it will take some time but you will get there.

I went from about 5.9 bpel to about 6.7 that I’m now, but you know what it really has not made a great difference. I’m still obsessed in getting a very big penis therefore have yet postponed any sexual encounter.

I thought I would be the happiest man on Earth when I reached 6 in nbp and Im now 6.45 yet don’t feel quite great.

So you must realize that the first change you need to see needs to come from the brain not from your penis.

Anyways just try to read and inform yourself so you can reach your goals, remember that it takes time and everyone is different so don’t rush into things ok?

So good luck and feel free to ask any questions because we are here to help each other. And by the record I think I wont have sex until I'm over 6.8 nbp and 5.3 in base girth, but that is just me.


Take a look at this post highlighting someone much smaller than you who has the right kind of attitude: The Right Attitude.

I’m 6.5 with a 1/4 inch that hasn’t cemented yet. Until then, I’m 6.5. (Bpel) my girlfriend told me last week that I’ve been bottoming out a lot lately and it’s hurting her. So now I don’t drive it all the way in. I myself have found that all the women I’ve been with have all been 4 to 5 in. Deep. At first I was proud that she told me my length was too big, then I felt real bad. I don’t want to hurt her, so I have to be careful. She had always told me I was the biggest she had. Go figure. My goal is 9 bpel and I’m quite a ways off from it, but as it gets bigger, I will have to be more careful.


09-01-07= 6" Bpel & 4.5" Eg

01-2013= 8" Bpel & 5&3/8" Eg

01-2015= 8" Bpel & 5.75" Eg

Pray you find a size queen.


Speak softly carry a big dick, I'm mean stick!

—Invisible—thanks for the links, I was able to read many, many other threads, all closely related.—

Forgive me for quoting so much of this article, but I found it pretty interesting.. This porn star basically has trouble fitting with his wife (apparently he’s too big), and apparently he’s doing a lot of jobs where he’s screwing his co-workers GFs and wives (pretty wack if you ask me!).

T = Testosterone Nation
D = Dillon Day

Quote
T: Where do you rate in that ranking system, leaning toward average or Dirk Diggler?

D: I’m about 8 1/2 inches, which is bigger than most guys in the industry. You have a couple guys bigger. My friend Julian is probably the biggest right now. He’s 11 inches. I joke about it with him. They’ll cast us in a threesome where we do a DP (double penetration) and I’ll say, Jesus, he makes me look like I’m hung like a bump! Sometimes when the guys are that huge, they have trouble getting a full erection. Not enough blood supply, or something. They usually get about half hard and have to work with that.

T: Have you ever hurt a woman because you were too large for her?

D: No, the girls always seem to take it no problem. I do hurt Dasha sometimes. She loves sex with me and thinks my dick is beautiful, but sometimes she wishes it was just a little smaller.

T: Do you ever get tired of having sex with so many beautiful young women?

D: I’ll tell you, when I first got into porno, it was the greatest thing in the world. I was getting paid to fuck all these gorgeous, incredibly sexy women. Then I met Dasha, my soul mate, my best friend in the world. Now it’s a job. I go to work and do what I’m paid to do. I’m addicted to that green. I’ve sold cars, real estate, and done well, but it wasn’t a quarter of what I make now. But like anything else, it was a lot more fun in the beginning than it is now.

T: How do you and Dasha keep from getting jealous that you both have sex with other people? As a man, isn’t your natural impulse to feel possessive of your woman?

D: It is a natural impulse for both of us to be jealous. We love each other. We stay away from each other’s sets, and we never watch our movies together. We don’t even discuss our work, honestly. She’s under contract to Vivid Video, and only does 6-8 movies a year. I average 275 scenes a year. Neither one of us is thrilled about those numbers.

T: Do you ever worry that another actor might perform better with Dasha than you?

D: I try not to think about it. The good thing is that she only works with a list of five or six guys, and they’re all friends of mine. I know they will always treat her with respect and aren’t going to try to pick up on her or anything. I also work with most of these guys’ wives and girlfriends, and they trust me to do the same. But of course it’s still weird.

My buddy Dale was cast to do a movie with Dasha, and he called me up the night before. He said he didn’t feel right about it and was thinking seriously of turning the job down. I told him he’d better go ahead and do it, and do a damned good job too or else I would be pissed. It’s difficult, but this is what we do for a living. It’s a business that can chew people up, use them, and then throw them away. Dasha and I are using the business to build a future together.

T-nation.com/readArticle.do;jsessionid=8CF36139B095E3ACAA1B5C09 %200202240C.hydra?id=462014&cr=features


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Mr. Happy quoted part of this interview as well:

Porn Star Dasha’s Opinion on Penis Size

Originally Posted by Mr. Happy
So what have we learned?

Porn stars are people too.

This is shocking—a porn star basically saying 8.5”+ is huge (well, at least that most other porn stars are smaller).

After reading a lot on this forum, I started feeling like 8” is just “good”.. Maybe because on this forum there are quite a few guys there & beyond.

I found this interview really interesting, and I don’t think I expected the answers I saw to some extent..

I was reading on biggerthanbefore.com — and I found all the penis measurement pictures quite amusing (for those who are wondering: biggerthanbefore.com/page/9/ ). They have all these distorted images and funny camera angles, and even a ruler measuring a black guy that’s supposedly 12” (but if you look close, the ruler starts at 4”.lol?—all the ‘huge’ guys were 8”).

So anyway, I think it’s safe to say you’re pretty huge if you’re 8” or more (especially if you’re measuring NBPEL)

Back to my original question though—“How much is too much”

Some of this implies if you’re going beyond 8.5” x 6” unless you’re with a sizequeen, maybe you’re doing it more for yourself than anyone else. I just wonder if people agree or disagree with this.

I am almost that big myself, oh well, I did it for me.


Speak softly carry a big dick, I'm mean stick!

Maybe you should expand on this. Keep on hunting and if you meet a girl who can’t quite take what you’ve got, maybe it’s time to pause and maintain what you’ve achieved. Later on down the road, if she fits more, you can continue again. The only thing that is completely consitent in what people who have been doing this a long time have told me is that it’s a long road. Pausing here and taking a look around may be a good choice.

P.S. One thing I do know for sure is that the average size is quite a bit smaller than what the surveys on a lot of sites show. Guys (like me) are too embarrassed to even put down their real size anonymously. You’re either average or a little bigger. If you’ve got a small girl.. :)

Put an add in the local paper. “Seeking size queen for my huge dong.”


Speak softly carry a big dick, I'm mean stick!

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