PE and wives or girlfriends

I have purchased two devices the Max-tender and Fast-size Extender. Well long story short I have not been really able to use either one due to the fact I don’t want my girlfriend to find out and seeing that I live with her it really makes it difficult to use them. She knows I want a bigger dick and says my size(close to 6 Inches would like another inch or so) is good for her. So I wanted to know if anyone else tries to hide the fact that their trying PE or If you share it with them and if so how do they react to it? Are they supportive? Do they want to hear about your gains? And so on.

Most of the women I have been with show little or no interest in PE. The ones that I have told mostly roll their eyes and say “your fine the way you are”. It totally depends on the woman though, so just use your best judgment with this particular woman.

I have and ADS too. I think she has found out about my PE but has not commented. I have noticed that while in bed and erect, she will size up my penis with her hands. I am really hoping that I yield something from PE.

Put the hardware away for a minimum of 6 months and do the newbie routine. It’s usually not advised to tell the girlfriend about PE. She may use it against you when you break up. Good luck!

All good advice.

It all depends if you care or not. Stop the paranoia and just do it man!

People, they’re like really good at keeping secrets arn’t they.

Most gals are cool with it, they are use to the same kind of influence with breast enlargement pills and the like. They maybe skeptical and think your a bit weird if they are not the sexually liberated type. One girl that I was with kind of freaked when she saw me on my computer with 20lbs hanging between my legs. But it did have a certain validation for her when she spreads in the evening.

Do a search on stealth PE for some thoughts on the subject.

Also, this thread might be of interest:
Wives Girlfriends and PE

Ditto what Pringles Can said.

Yes we are all here to get gains, but they take time. I started PE in 2007, really only gained some girth, and that was from doing the Newbie Routine for only 6 weeks. Then I thought well shit hanging looks good, and it looks like I’ll get the most length gains in the littlest time. Well it’s not as easy as you may think and there are a host of things that can go wrong. If I had it all to do over again I would have just stuck with the Newbie Routine for a year straight and maybe modifying it only in duration (sticking to Jelqs & Stretches only).

The Newbie Routine is probably your best bet for gains, safety, and for stealth. You can do this in the bathroom, your girlfriend might notice you are taking longer showers, or shits, :) . Just progress slowly, listen to your penis, and read a ton on these boards to see what other guys have done/haven’t done. You don’t want to end up hurting yourself and having to take time off, or worse yet causing ED to yourself.

I’m currently on a deconditioning break waiting for some thrombosed veins and lymph issues to clear up. I might be out for a while. It’s not fun sitting out, but it’s what I must do because I was putting way too much stress on my penis. Don’t end up like me, do the Newbie Routine for some time then progress into other things. Okay I sound like Jacob Marely, :) .

Also if I were you I wouldn’t stress out too much about length right away, it is not as if you are seriously lacking in length, it is by most accounts around average like mine. Even if you don’t get length gains from the newbie routine, or they aren’t as much as you like, you may get girth gains and/or improve the vascularity of your unit as well. Just some other things to throw out there that you might not have thought of.

Good luck.

Oh and by the way, WhiskeyFish it looks like you have Pringles Cans’ avatar, :) .

I don’t know if telling her about PE would be a good idea. What you could do is get a safe place to hide your equipment, just lock it up when your not using it. You can wear an extender without her knowing about it. Just be sure to take a break every couple hours. I would advise against telling her about what your doing because she can use that information to screw you over later in life.

Honestly the girls I’ve met would be lining up at his door. Even when girls say a guy has a small penis, women will still sleep with the guy purely for to satisfy their curiosity.

You guys are so paranoid, seriously.

I’m all stealth so I don’t mention anything. I don’t go for devices though, except for the cable clamp that I’ve just started using, and it’s pretty easy to get the manual stuff done when the time is available.

1. She may not like the idea of PE, but if she breaks up with you over it - do you really want her? lol.

2. It is easier to say about PE if you first do the newbie routine and show her it is gaining… just say you been stretching it when you pee and say how shocked you are it is working.

You can then move on to saying you want to take it seriously. If she sees results - it wont seem so stupid.

By my experiences, it can go both ways. The girlfriend I have now is very unsupportive, and doesn’t really believe it works. She kind of looks down on me when I’m doing PE, so I’m trying to stealth as much as possible… My girlfriend before that was very supportive and though it was very cool that it actually worked! (Got an inch bigger while being with her). But she worshipped my dick.. My current does not.

I recommend to stealth until you pound her with some results. But then again, it’s all about her SOUL.

Girlfriends eh? O_o