Originally Posted by race17k
My currrent size is about 7” EL and about 5.5” EG wich I don’t think is very big.. Now she has been with six other guys and is telling me that I am the biggest that she has had!
Is that 7” BPEL, or indeed 7” EL, and if so what is your BPEL?
That is definitely on the big side in both dimensions, and your partners’ experience reflects the reality of just how big you are. You can search for various threads discussing topics like “true average”.
That’s also a size that is close to as big as the large majority of women can easily accomodate, without at least some occasional discomfort. You can search for various threads discussing topics like “ideal size”, and search carefully for some of the most critical discussion.
At the same girth as you, and a little bit shorter, I find that I sometimes make partners sore fairly quickly due to my thickness, leading to shorter sex sessions and longer intervals between sessions. I would like to be closer to your length, but since I already have some experience hitting partners’ cervixes - uncomfortably - I wouldn’t want to be much longer than that.
I’ve recently realized that visually I’d love to have a fat 8 x 6 flacid hang, but based on lots of reading including experiences from bigger guys, for myself I would make a practical judgement call that anything bigger than 7.5” BPEL x 5.75” EG would run more of a risk for being a problem with partners than I would be comfortable with.
Good Luck,
FF
Starting, summer '06: 6" EL, 6.5" BPEL, 5.5" EG / Currently: Approximately .4" length and .25" girth gains / Stretched ligs .5" - .6", increasing PBFL and flacid hang
Goal: 7.25" BPEL x 5.75" EG, currently over HALF WAY THERE! on length and ACHIEVED GIRTH!
Piercings: 4 Gauge PA (currently not wearing), Two 4 Gauge upper frenums, other non-genital