Not sure what to do about this.

A couple of nights ago, my wife asked if I have bought some kind of
Penis enlargement pills or something. I asked why. She said that my
Dick is bigger than it was when we started seeing each other (about 2 1/2 years ago).

I gave her a “I don’t know what you’re talking about” look, and just shook my head.

She said that if I AM taking pills, or using some kind of device to enlarge my
Dick, she wants me to stop. She says that my dick is PLENTY big enough, and
Does NOT want it any bigger, because it’s already painful at times.

So, I don’t know. I know that my 7.5 length is definately LONG enough for her.
But for myself, I’d REALLY like to have a 6 inch girth as opposed to my present
5.25 inches.

Actually, my ULTIMATE goal would be 6.25 inches in girth. But I’m wondering if I
Should leave “well enough” alone, simply because she asked me to.

Tough call, wouldn’t ya say?

AH HA She’s on to you! Congrats! I would think the painfulness is due to length. My Fiance at times say I hurt her with only 6” length. I would suggest like you said working on girth. She’ll probably end up loving you for it.

Or you could even try using a dildo that is bigger than you in girth and see how she responds.

I would tend to say its your girth that she has noticed.

Your length increase from 7 > 7.5 isnt as “noticable” inside as your girth increase 4.75 > 5.25

I would say go for girth, but if she says anything again, stop.

WhammyBar:

The correct response goes something like this…

“Honey6, you know those pill things are just an Internet scam… it’s just that, after 2½ years, you turn me on more than ever.”

Hope this helps.

GM

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She says that because she wants to know, not why she thinks your dick is too big ;)

The next time it comes up, act confused, and ask her to explain more clearly: In what way, specifically, do I sometimes cause you pain? Do I hit your cervex? Is it too tight? What? You want her to tell you whether it’s the length, the girth, or both that is the problem. Then you could make your decision accordingly.

Having said that, I find it hard to believe that 5.25” girth is causing her pain; if it is, you are very lucky! :) But it does seem reasonable that 7.5” length might be hitting the wrong spot every now and then. You can adjust your positions and other things to help with this. And, make sure she is plenty aroused before you enter her; this way she will be maximally tented. But even with all of this, 7.5” probably is too long for some women.

So it might be a good idea to stop with the length and focus on girth—again, depending on the specifics she gives to you. Let us know how it goes.

By the way, is that 7.5” BPEL or NBPEL?

I have always got 5.5 EG, and i think that it can hurt more than length for most women.

My girlfriend and i could’nt have sex for 4 months because of my girth. I tried to get it in, but it just hurt. On both her and me.
I worked on getting her more aroused, but even when i got her so wet that she practically dripped on the sheets, we could’nt have sex.

She’s had former boyfriends, and with them it was no problem. But it was not until she talked to several doctors about the issue of relaxing her ‘vagina muscles’ or whatever their called, that we could actually have sex. It involved some excersises, PC muscle training among others.

We still have problems though. It still hurts, and i’ve never entered her completely as i’m thicker from the midshaft and down.

I guess this varies with women. My last girlfriend said it hurt a lot in the start, and it was’nt after some time she got accostumed to it.

Maybe you should suggest your wife to talk to her doctor about it?

How old is your girlfriend? I think legal age in Denmark is 15.

As someone on the receiving end of the enlargement exercises, I would hope that if I told my spouse that sex was hurting, you need to stop and maintain, that he would out of courtesy for me. What is the use of a big penis if you can’t have sex?

I also agree that you should inquire more about why it hurts, is it too long, is it too thick. Then decide on your course of action. I do realize that many of the guys here are doing this for themselves, but when you are in a long term relationship there is no I in the word WE. If she wants you to stop, talk it over, find out why and go from there.

My two cents worth.

True.
We’re also allowed to buy beer when we turn 15, so the law was’nt misplaced. :)
She’s 18. My ex-girlfriend was 16 and the time, and virgin.

It might very well be that their age has something to do with it…

I tore my ex-wife’s fourchette (the bottom of her vaginal opening where the labia meet). She looked down and, as she was rubbing some Campho Phenique, asked me to hold off doing any more PE. She wasn’t pissed or anything, just said I was too wide. A few weeks passed (without me doing any PE) and she said to go ahead with the exercises.

I’d say be up front (if it’s not too late) and stop the PE for a while until she adjusts.

Wow, what is your current stats?

Whammybar,
I would say that since you are in a commited relationship, love, honesty and respect outweigh your desire for a larger penis. Talk with your wife about what is painful sometimes; deep penetrations or the girth. Not only will this show how much you care for her but it will also help direct your PE efforts if you decide to continue them.

If you have just recently seen the girth gains, she may be taking some time to adjust to the new thickness. Over time, you may be able to continue based on her adjustment. Once you are married, it is no longer your penis, it is hers… she just lets you carry it around for her. :D