Not getting hard for sex

Really if you think about it, lets say you’re with a woman that thinks and acts as Yataghan50 says. I think that would be a mega turn on for me :P like a porn star knowing what she wants, sure the same the opposite way!

Today’s day three!! No porn and no masturbation and I’ve had no urges to do either. I’ve actually started going to the gym and I think it’s been helping me stay away from the computer

See? Just stay busy. Keep up the good work dude!

I did this to try and help my sex life. I was edging and PEing, and using porn for it. And it works, it’s hard to edge for an hour without anything visual. But I switched to pictures, and now PE without anything. I watch TV shows while I jelq, so my brain controls it. I realized while having sex I was looking at my gf and had to see tits move and stare at her to get off, not good. Keep masturbating, but stop watching things.

Yeah I agree on the watching, but I think it’s a fine line here. Because we don’t want to get used to too much hardcore stuff, but we don’t wanna suppress the sexual energy either.

This has gotta be true. Think about porn. At least for me, I usually browse a couple videos and now it takes seeing actual penetration before I get an erection. Horrible and I’m trying to wean myself off of such needs.

Erock

Porn is unhealthy for me. I can masturbate with or without porn, but when I go without porn I find myself more productive throughout the day and I rest better at night. When I masturbate without porn I always think of my girlfriend, the ejaculation is much more intense, and I can’t wait to see her!

Watching porn is a bad habit I picked up in my early teens. Like many, I have deleted numerous porn collections from my hard drive in an attempt to break the habit.

PE has given me a reason to finally curve my porn consumption and eventually cut it out altogether. I have not read a definitive answer if masturbation hinders gains or not, so I’m not going to risk it. My plan is to be done with porn and only masturbate if I can’t get any ass by the time I finish the newbie routine. I would like to see what it does for my EQ because I have been wanking it damn near everyday since my early teens.

I am not so sure that “no” masturbation is really the key.

For example if you go to the blog Yataghan50's post links too, he advocates retraining your penis to respond to lighter and more subtle stimulation.

There’s a good section on anxiety too.

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Basically, too many guys grip way too hard when they masturbate, conditioning their penises to only respond to that kind of thing. It has been called “The Death Grip Syndrome.” Maybe that is part of what is going on.

Here is that part of his blog

Masturbation Technique

I think I have a problem too. I haven’t masturbated without porn for as long as I can remember.Infact I need it to get off,what should I do?

You should definitely not stop masturbating. In most cases this surely leads to ED. Maybe without porn, yes.

Use your imagination. You can imagine all you want, be actor and not spectator.

One option - try this, wannabeast.

Watch porn to get aroused. Then turn it OFF.

Continue masturbating and just focus on the sensations.

You will be surprised at how much the porn was distracting you from all the good feelings.