Originally Posted by endoftheworld
I’m not looking at real porn, as in hardcore for quite some time, months I would say.. Infact I’ve only occasionally looked at hardcore over the years. My main turn on is softcore, pictures and videos of just naked women etc. My question is though do you think that regardless of hardcore or softcore, the effect and consequence is just the same? I’ve watched yourbrainonporn videos and I’m assuming they’re mainly referring to the consequences of watching hardcore porn. What about just watching videos and pictures of naked women wandering around on beaches, stripping, voyeur stuff etc etc. Does that have the same effect on the brain as hardcore porn?
My hunch is that it does because it still uses dopamine, the arousal factor is still present.
Looking at naked beautiful woman is still kind of harmful because it makes you less attracted to normal looking woman, and too much solo girl stuff will desensitize you, but at least it makes you focus on the opposite sex. It isn’t a good idea to watch it everyday though…you should be fine if you watch it 3 or 4 days a week, which is my long term goal. I’ve been watching girls everyday and I find myself now thinking about getting blowjobs more, instead of focusing on girls masturbating and plowing the shit out of them, and have been having hard core straight porn flash backs. I’m going to cut back. I think watching solo girl stuff too much will lead back to straight porn because I’ve been getting urges lately. Quitting porn is really hard actually. For me at least. I’ve been depressed since I quit a month ago despite masturbating to solo girl stuff every day. My second week of solo girl gave me the biggest dopamine jolt, and it has been slowly declining because I’m watching these girl videos multiple times a day for the sake of ejaculating. Enough is enough.
Watching too much hard core porn makes you a pervert. It makes you masturbate to videos and images of things that don’t agree with your code of conduct or even your sexual orientation. People on yourbrainonporn never admit that they want to commit homosexual acts from what I remember, of any kind because they are not willing to admit that they liked what they saw. They just say they watch gay porn and don’t like it, but still manage to ejaculate to something that supposedly purely disgusts them. That is the half truth. When a straight guy starts watching any kind of gay porn. They are liking and hating what they are seeing simultaneously, which creates a big dopamine hit. It starts with hard core porn, and your innate bisexuality, slowly makes you develop a fetish. For most of us, it is sucking dick I think because it is easier to focus on a dick without thinking about the men they happen to be attached to. That’s why glory holes were invented. It makes no sense for a woman to suck a dick through a glory hole now that I think about it.