No porn

Watch amateur porn. Some of the guys are big because they are willing to be on video but you’ll find some you are bigger then too.

Your brain needs to reset man. All those years hard wired your brain and it needs time to desensitize itself (including soft-core). My suggestion is the fastest way to recover is to just quit cold-turkey, though, my journey I have done the 1 week no pmo (then fapped), 2 week no pmo (fapped), 3 weeks no pmo then fapped progressive approach… until you just get rid of it completely after that. It takes a much longer time to recover but I do find it easier than cold turkey. The first 3-4 days are the hardest, relapse usually occurs on day 7 and around the 2 week mark. Then mid 2-3 week mark give or take. Of course your stimulation to porn in the past is very different than of mine. So you can use these estimates to judge for yourself. Good luck. You can do it. :)

I just succeeded doing this for the first time. I was probably doing this for over an hour, going near blowing and stopping at the last possible moment. Erection really suffers after 15-20 minutes, so don’t know if doing it for so long was useful.

After I stopped, first half an hour felt very uncompleted, but now, two hours since I stopped, it almost feels like I blew. But not sure really sure whether I can resist blowing next time.

I agree. I was planning on doing this after this semester is over. I was just worried I’d go into WD and become useless. Biochemically, fapping makes me more normal. What happens exactly when you stop completely?

I read bits of the your brain on porn website and would really like to kick the habit, I’ve cut way back and it has helped, it’s really tough though. What’s killing me is I have a really beautiful woman (to me) in my life and I find it hard to reach climax even though I’m crazy about her. I know it also affects my moods when I’m around her, other friends and family. If I’ve falling off the wagon I get irritable and have less desire to be with the REAL woman in my life. It’s terrible..

Good luck to everyone trying to kick this (and me too)

Hmm let’s see. Better sex drive. Erections whenever you want (as applicable). Less social anxiety. Confidence. Let’s just say the pro’s outweigh the cons. Cons meaning you’re really horny, perhaps if you are able to use that sex drive and shift it to something more productive, meaningful, and valuable.

Wawawuh, you are absolutely correct. I experience the exact same issues of irritability and desires. My spouse thinks that I am going through bouts of depression, but I know that pmo is the cause of the depression symptoms. Until we kick the habit, it will happen over and over. I have gone six days now without pmo and I am at the end of my rope and there isn’t a knot and not enough rope to tie one! The worst part is even the soft core that is on TV is causing arousal. For those who are really serious about kicking the porn habit, there are software solutions available to assist with tracking and accountability. Honestly, the best thing I have done in the past was to find a friend that had the same issue and holding each other accountable (I.e., calling at least once a week at odd times of the day to check in - like over the lunch hour, etc.).

It is a long row to hoe, but it can be done.

I was porn free for about 2 months but since last week I’ve watched porn again.

And yes, in my personal experience when i don’t watch porn for a while the sex drive increases, more women look hotter, maybe this is also because i try to not masturbate in the periods i don’t watch porn.

Also it’s been 62 days so far with no masturbation, no cumming or having sex (not a personal choice lol), I’ve had edged a few times but never came, and believe me you get aroused very easy after this period of time, not that i have problems getting aroused by any means, but this is too much sometimes, lol.

I’ll try to keep going to reach three months with no cumming and also try start over the porn detox.

10 days no porn no fap, sex drive already raging. Inner caveman telling me to go out and get some.. I feel the call of the wild more than ever before and feel like a MAN. I’m never going back to the old days of laziness and desensitization.

I decided a few days ago, not to wank off on a PE day. I do 2 days PE and day off so it will be no big sacrifice at all. This is in an attempt to cure my occasional ED.

I’m still watching a little bit of porn to get me hard for doing kegels and for jelqing.

Already I’ve noticed a significant difference! The main one being my orgasms are amazing! Longer and much more intense. Wanking has become a joy again. My EQ is better than ever before, and of course my load is much bigger. I’m not sure how much of this is down to reduced masturbation or the benefits of PE. I’ve only been doing it for a little over 2 weeks so I don’t know. I once went 5 days without cumming when I was staying with friends and couldn’t get a moment to myself, and my balls were really achy! I when I eventually did cum I thought they were gonna burst( not in a good way) and the achy feeling stayed for a day after that, so I wouldn’t recommend going months at a time with out coming. I’ve heard it can cripple your sperm count if you do.

I need to give up porn too !!! , its depressing as hell for me !!

For the guys that give up everything , I know how you feel.I will not masterbate, I save all my orgasms for my girl, and vice versa.

The main problem with this is I’m TOO horny when we get to together.I can’t last long at all, and that SUCKS,,girls can cum as fast as they want, and that’s never a problem….

I hear ya man. I went from not being able to reach orgasm to having to work hard to not reach orgasm too soon. I do feel so much more attraction to my girl though and I love that and she digs it too. All she has to do is walk in my door and I’m ready! I think she was beginning to wonder if she didn’t do it for me because I would take so long, and sometimes never reach orgasm. I definitely spend more time now with foreplay, just really enjoying her and getting her really purring before I enter her. This lets her reach orgasm, often before I even enter her and definitely soon after I do.

For me it feels far more pleasurable and far more natural to be off porn and on my girl. I think there is a lot to the “your brain needs to reset”. It’s like dealing with a drug or alcohol addiction, very powerful. Again best of luck to everyone struggling with this.

Part of what KILLS me see my favorite positions,,that I can’t do with my gf ,, it F’ing SUCKS !!!

She can’t handel my curve in doggy style and most other positions that are not strait on.,AND no friggin G spot to be found !!

But other than that, life is grand (*_*)

Unless I’m very much mistaking, what you and Hassuna are describing is called edging. According to experienced PEers, it helps with pre-mature ejaculation and just in general helps you last longer in bed. I guess it is definitely true for me.

In general I would jack off hard and fast until I came…instant gratification. Totally fucked up my sex life.