No clue on good goals. Virgin here.
I guess my problem is that I don’t have any reasonable expectations for what an ideal penis size is, and I hope the thread title makes it obvious why. Honestly, I’ve never been on a date, I can remember every single instance when I’ve kissed someone (and count them on one hand), and the one time I was literally picked up by a hot girl at a party, basically total ED killed it (drunkest night of my life, also the first time I mixed alcohol and marijuana! Vomiting a lot :) .. )
I’ve certainly been a bit insecure about the size of my penis growing up, having only porn to compare to, and while I knew that was completely unrealistic, it didn’t inspire immense feelings of adequacy or confidence. A few experiences have led me not to feel bad about my penis, one of them coming here. Not that I felt I “needed” a bigger penis, but of course I thought “hey, why not?”
My measurements starting out are about 7.125 BPEL and 5 MSEG (had previously gotten the idea that you shouldn’t press while measuring, and then read up on what the acronym BPEL meant). I’ve been reading on the forum and have come across a number of comments about guys wondering what “too big” is. Girth was a big issue for both ease of different sexual acts and even the possibility of sex altogether at times. I’ve seen mentions of length as well, citing the usefulness of being just long enough for the one woman you want.
I’m 24 btw, and I have basically no interest in casual sex. I was always kind of a shy, idealistic romantic, and enough of that remains that I pretty much only want a physical relationship that’s attached to a serious emotional one. I’d be perfectly content not having sex at all (or not enjoying sex “as much as possible”) until I get married (or make some equivalent commitment to a woman). I don’t have a religion, this is just personal preference.
I’m wondering if there aren’t some fellows who might share their experiences with PE enhanced penises and how different women respond to them? I’m perfectly willing to wait until I’m in a relationship to start PE, but it’d be nice to know if there was some reasonable limit to size that 99% of women would not be bothered by (given how long it can take to get any results, it’d be convenient at least to find out what works for me, get my penis used to some basic exercise).
I should mention I’m a little short for an american, about 5’ 8” - 5’ 7.5”, and I do have a fondness for smaller girls.