Nightmare: impotence at the wrong time
Some background info: I’m a 30 year old heterosexual male, GF broke up with me 2-weeks ago but we still live together (long story.), this was an off day after doing PE routines for 2-3 days straight.
Ok, so this is what happened last night. Went to a club solo and picked up 2 chicks on the dance-floor, these women were grinding up on me all night long and being very suggestive in how they were doing it (ie. Bending over and pressing ass into my groin, grabbing my semi-erect cock, kissing, etc). One girl had pretty big titties, nice thick body. The one who was all over me was a little chunkier, I’m not into fat chicks, but this one wasn’t a deal-breaker (I was down to fuck).
So we split from the club and walk over to their hotel room. I knew it was fucking on and couldn’t wait. Found out these chicks are from out of town and are leaving tomorrow. Got to the hotel room, the girls poured me a drink. Big titties asked if ever had a threesome, both chicks proceeded to jump on me and started trying to rip off my clothes. So good so far, right? I noticed I was still flacid but thought this would be temporary. Started getting a little more worried when I couldn’t get hard. Chunky chick grabs a condom and shoves it on my semi-erect / flacid and tries to hump me. We don’t get very far. Big Titties makes a comment about my size (I’m flacid for Christ’s sake!). Chunky’s whispering “get hard for me” and instead of turning into a beast like I should have, I started to get nervous & couldn’t get it up. WTF is wrong with me!!
Chunky rolls over, passes out. Big titties ends up escorting me from the hotel, saying that their friends were coming and I had to get out. Exchanged numbers and split. I drive back home to my crib, cursing myself out for what could have been. 45 minutes later, I’m chilling at my place when these chicks start blowing up my phone. I pick up and Chunky wants me to come back. I’m thinking “no problem, redemption time, I’m fucking the shit out of her” and drive back. Chunky meets me downstairs in my car and we park, kissing and getting a hand job from this chick the whole time (no problems getting hard at this point).
Go upstairs to the room, lights are out, Big Titties is in one of the beds with another dude (chilling, just fucked). There’s another talkative chick in the room, doesn’t have a dude. I’m trying to get busy with Chunky and to my horror, it’s not getting hard, again. Extremely frustrated, I resort to other means of pleasuring my partner (ie. Fingers, etc). In the bed next door, Big Titties and her random guy start fucking, adding to the overall pressure on me to get harder. Chunky keeps asking me “why aren’t you getting hard?” After another 45 minutes to 1 hour of trying to get my dick to stand up, I give up and bounce.
LOL, this is the complete anti-thesis of a sayan22 story. I am so fucking embarassed man, WTF is wrong with me. I get gift-wrapped an opportunity most men dream about and can’t perform and seize the moment, then the same things happens again when I get a 2nd chance! Sigh, FML.
Sorry for that rambling post, just wanted to get that off my chest. One of the most incredibly frustrating nights of my life. Don’t know if my EQ was just low because of intense PE’ing the few days before. Or whether I just psyched myself out by thinking too much about trying to get hard instead of just letting it happen. Or whether there’s some kind of subconcious guilt thing going on with the live-in ex-GF (I felt acutely aware that I was leaving the house at 3 am to go try and fuck these hoes that I met earlier and would have to sneak back in later), this is additional performance anxiety?
I guess the purpose of this thread is to get the advice I need so that I NEVER go through another bullshit episode like this again..
@ Mods: I tried to post this in one of DW’s forums (the life and sex one) but was not permitted to for some reason. Please feel free to transfer this thread to the proper location if necessary, thanks.