Newbie with questions?

Hey guys I want to introduce my self, and I hope you guys can help. I have an average size penis at about 6” and yes I would like to enlarge it. My main problem is that I had a vasectomy about 4 years ago and ever since I have become a premature ejaculator. When I am having sex with my wife, I usually last about 3-8 minutes and then I go dead. I started taking Enzyte a week ago and I feel that my penis is getting a harder erection. I am only 33 years old and I need to stay hard for at least half an hour. Your advice will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

I hear some men in your age use Viagra as a good supplement for “being busy all night.”

Hi Dan,

Welcome at Thunder’s. I don’t know if you have a routine worked out, if not, get yourself going on a routine that you are comfortable with. You’ll notice that in a few days or weeks, depending on the regularity of your routine, you won’t be as sensitive and you will gradually start to last longer during sex, your erections will also be getting firmer. Remember to give yourself sufficient resting time as to not over-work your penis, especially during the first couple of weeks.

Wishing you success with your exercising and hope to hear about your results and possible routines that did wonders for you.

Cheers

CAH

Dan,

You didn’t really say what you want to accomplish. Do you plan to start PE?

Totally agree with cah: PE is not only to enlarge it, but to turn it into a much more strong organ. When they advertise PE, they leave firmer and stronger erctions in a second place. But its as important as size, and somehow more important.

(pm me if you would like details of my case)

Hi Dan,

Welcome. I have a question for you. Did you use condoms prior to the vasectomy? If so, is the absence of the condoms producing more stimulation than you are acustomed to, thus causing the premature ejac?

When you say you go dead after 3-8 minutes, did you ejaculate? Or do you just lose your erection?

If you are ejaculating after 3-8 minutes, sounds like you should practice ‘edging’ to lengthen your control and staying power.

If you are losing your erection after 3-8 minutes of good stimulation, then there are many possible factors that range from physical to emotional and psychological.

Do you manually stimulate your wife while having intercourse? This will help keep her moving along.

Best wishes!
Rambone

I am sorry; I should have explained my self-better. I usually go dead after ejaculating and do not have the drive to go extra minutes. I would like to fix the premature problem first and later increase my size. Is there an exercise I can start doing now that will help me with both problems?

For the premature issue, try kegels and edging. (Was it because of the lack of condoms producing more sensitivity than you are used to?)

PEing in general might help you with the premature ejaculations, I’m not certain. But it’s definitely the only way to size.

There are various forms of these exercises which you will undboubtedly find in the ARTILCES and Newbie forums.

Best,
Rambone

PS: I’m considering getting a vasectomy too. Would you recommend it?

Rambone,

I did use condoms prior to the vasectomy but I don’t think that is the problem. I have 3 kids and felt like that was it for me and made the decision. I would recommend just because you will have peace of mind when having sex.

I am trying to understand the problem. Do you feel that you are climaxing too early? Or is it your practice to ejaculate and continue with an erection for the next 22 minutes?

I am only suggesting that if you didn’t have a problem with premature ejaculation while using condoms and now without condoms you ARE, maybe it’s the increased sensitivity? If not, I don’t know what might now be causing what was not a problem for you pre-vastectomy.

Rambone

Since I ejaculate with-in the first 3-5 minutes and then go dead, I know I am not pleasing wife since she would prefer for me to continue to at least 20 minutes. I been told there is no cure for P/E but I will visit an urologist soon and ask him what’s wrong with me. You recommended edging, how is that done?

Thanks

Dan,

Checkout this thread: Revolutionary Method To End Premature Ejaculation. But, in short, edging is masturbating up to the point of no return followed by a strong kegel followed by some short ones. Edging helps with control, but maybe more importantly you should follow a good routine of kegels (another subject to read up on).

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