I’ve been lurking for a while and just I am just starting into PE. Being in my mid forties, I have noticed a definite “shrinkage” problem over the last few years along with the typical softening erections that middle age brings. Given my age and the fact that I ain’t getting any younger, I have finally decided to do something about it.
After reading the basic “how to’s” on PE, I have a few questions. To start out, the proper jelqing techniques, which if I understand correctly is to force blood into the penis, create microscopic tears in the tissue and stretch the skin to allow for growth. Since I feel that I am rather small (6 1/4 erect) and have large hands, I lack the necessary room for a full stroke. What I have been doing is a warm wrap to limber up then I get a firm grasp at the base with my thumb and pinky finger, then firmly wrap each finger in turn up the shaft ending up with my index finger slightly behind the glands. This appears to be accomplishing the blood forcing as the area ahead of my fingers enlarges to full erection diameter. The problem that I am running into is that it feels like this technique may be a little too effective. The skin feels like is is stretching to the point of mild discomfort. Is this normal? Or am I doing the jelqing wrong? I usually do about five to ten “squeezes” with one hand then switch to the other in order to keep things balanced out. Lastly I finish up with several stretches. This leads to my next question, exactly how hard does one “pull”? Currently, I am pulling to the mild discomfort level (again this is from the skin on my penis, not internally). T