Newbie - questions and concerns
Hi, this is my first post on the forum.
I’m very new to this and have a few questions for which I’m hoping for some honest answers and guidance.
I recently started out on a newbie type routine but only jelqed rather than stretched. I jelqed about 5 days out of 7 for approx 10-15 mins each time. I didn’t count strokes as I felt like I really had to focus and watch porn to stay in the zone. Anyway, I stopped doing it after reading a bit about injuries, valves and risks. I thought, it can’t be worth the risk. However about 2 weeks later, I was about to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time since before trying the jelqing and she commented on how it seemed a bit bigger than the usual. Now I hadn’t noticed the change myself really but hearing this gave me a real kick if I’m honest.
So, due to the ego boost, I would like to keep doing it if possible but I would like honest opinions on how much of a risk this is and the best way to go about doing it safely. Is there anyway to guarantee safety? I didn’t experience any soreness etc when doing the Jelqs.
Another question I have is in relation to ejaculating. Is it detrimental to ejaculate at the end of every jelqing session. It would be easier to work in masturbation with the PE if possible as it’s definitely a lot more efficient use of time than spending many hours a day touching my junk for differing reasons.
The main thing though is safety and not damaging my penis. I’m happy to just Jelq and get an extra half inch thickness really.