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Newbie Question About Sex

Newbie Question About Sex

After sex with my girlfriend I have the horrible habit of asking her if she climaxed. Mainly because of my own insecurities in being bad I constantly ask so I know if I need to work harder next time. She doesn’t seem bothered by me asking at all because most of the time the answer is yes, but it is quickly followed by ” I am surprised you didn’t feel it”. My stats are 5.5” NBPEL and about 4” EG all the way up and down the shaft. So my question is: How large do you need to be to feel a woman’s orgasm I.E. Her vagina squeeze on your dick? I have never felt it as far as I can recall during sex, it doesn’t bother me but it does make me want to know what it does feel like and dedicate more time to PE to achieve it. With the thought in mind I am curious if you need length to feel the squeeze near the Cul De Sac area? Or is it simply girth that lets you feel her grip? FYI I have inserted my shaft before and asked her to squeeze, the only time I felt it was when I kegeled against her squeeze which I felt very very lightly grip me but not a very intense sensation and most likely was just me feeling my kegel have something to push against.

I can feel it most times when my wife cums when I’m in her. If it’s oral I can really feel her grip my fingers. There are other ways to tell if she’s climaxed apart from her clamping/griping your dick. Some women will be flushed, nipples become even more erect and for me she gets even more juicy. The easiest sign for me is she arches her back and nearly sits up in bed. After which her clit is hyper sensitive. The previous is not a comprehensive list.


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Don’t ask.

If she seems to enjoy the experience, trust that.

What you could do VERY now and then is ask her what she would like for you to do to give her the most pleasure.


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avocet8

I have noticed my girlfriend does share in some of the obvious signs you just listed: the becoming flushed and nipples being hard. Also now that you mention it I have noticed that the wetness in her feels different from the kind when she is being worked up. Not that is more juicy but feels like a different consistency of liquid like water to chocolate milk. Still wish I could feel her squeeze though =D thanks for the reply!

Originally Posted by avocet8
Don’t ask.

If she seems to enjoy the experience, trust that.

What you could do VERY now and then is ask her what she would like for you to do to give her the most pleasure.


I will stop asking! Thank you I needed someone to just flat out tell me. I do ask her quite a bit what she would prefer me to do to give her more pleasure but she says that it is already great and says I do not have to change a thing. She is my first but I am her fourth sexual partner and I feel I have more sexual prowess than her in the sack, suppose that is from all the porn watching though =/

Women can enjoy sex without cumming… Just leave it - If she begins to think your value system *requires* her to orgasm it will put a lot of pressure on her, and detract from the experience altogether..


Was - NBPEL 6.5" BPEL 7.5" MSEG 5.5" Now - NPBEL 8.1" BPEL 8.7" MSEG 6.3"

I guess I’m lucky since my girl always lets me know when she’s “about to cum”… the moaning increases, and she starts telling me to keep doing whatever it is I’m doing… sometimes it’s hard for me not to cum myself when she’s getting all vocal… that’s a rough 20-30 seconds of pure bliss =)… Aside from the blunt vocal signs, she also gets a lot more moist after the fact… a lot of the women I have been with also became super moist, and some would show no signs… my opinion, I would talk to her and just let her know that your priority is to please her, and you’ll do whatever it takes.


Start: November 2010 (BPEL: 7.5" -- EG (Midshaft): 5.6" -- EG (Base): 6.1")

Yeah, women like you caring about their orgasm, but they want you to know how to do it, not interrogate them about it. It makes them have to think about it when they’d rather relax and just enjoy sex/afterglow, and it can make them feel like something is wrong with them for not being able to. Bring it up, but make it playful, ask her if there’s anything she’d like to try and if she tells you or asks unsure, be like ‘come on babe, I want to give you toe-curling, earth shaking, OH MY GOD HE’S A SEX GOD! orgasms’ and she’ll let you know if you’re possibly doing something wrong or if there is something she’d like to try.

My current girlfriend doesn’t clamp down when she orgasms.

It kinda weirded me out at first, because I was under the impression that all women clamped down involuntarily during an orgasm.

It got to the point that it made me wonder if she was faking it. A year and a half later, she still doesn’t clamp down during an orgasm, but exhibits many of the other symptoms (erect nipples, extreme gushing, spasms, erratic breathing, hypersensitive clit afterward, etc.)


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