Newbie post - lurked for YEARS, now gonna try it
Hey guys, feel free to call me Teach. I’m originally from Florida but currently suburbing it up near Atlanta. I’m 26yo, 6’1, 240lbs, big build with broad shoulders and a belly too. My ethnicity is WASP (White Anglo-Saxon Protestant) of mainly English, Irish, and Scottish heritage. My size whenever I measure it depends on my EQ, but it’s always with a quarter-inch of 5.75 length BPEL (5.0 NBPEL) x 5.0 girth.
I joined this site years ago because I was curious about the concept of PE. I’ve lurked but never bothered responding much or trying to make an honest attempt at PE. Now my attitude has changed.
My Past Experiences:
I’ve read many threads here and felt sorrow for those men that believed they were inadequate or had partners insult their size. I’ve been fortunate enough to have avoided that scenario and it’s certainly not because of my current size nor due to lack of experience.
My first kiss was about ten years ago, and since then I’ve had the pleasure of dating women of almost every background (rich, middle-class, poor), personality type (loyal and sweet to crazy and wild), age (almost twenty years older than myself) and ethnicity (White, Black, Jewish, Italian, etc). My sex life each time was good and fulfilling. I’ve had frank and illuminating discussions with my partners, ranging from fantasies to roleplaying to swinging to penis size to vaginal tightness. My personal spectrum has shifted drastically; my two Jewish gfs both exclaimed I was the biggest they ever had (and consistently talked dirty enough for me to believe it) while the black woman I dated said the only guy she ever had that was smaller than me was the only other white guy she dated. Does this mean I’m bigger than every Jewish guy and smaller than every black guy, a conclusion that could be drawn from my examples? Of course not. That’s just the statistical variance of a relatively small sample size, which is precisely why men cannot let one bad experience ruin their self-confidence. But more importantly, does this mean that penis size is the end-all-be-all for good sex? Of course not. The best sex I ever had did not come from a girl with the tightest vagina nor the biggest breasts.
So having said all that, I know deep down that I don’t *need* to get any bigger and most men should feel the same about themselves. I think this is a good mentality of which to approach this process. It boils down to personal preference between partners that determines if the sex is great or middling. After reading this site for years, doing the research online, and analyzing personal experience, I’ve learned that my size is average. And that’s ok. It’s my openness in bed and my stamina that makes the girls happy between the sheets.
I have realized, however, that I do *want* to be bigger.
Why I’m Doing It Now:
Overall I’m in a big health kick. My body fat percentage is close to 30% and used to be higher, so although I have good blood pressure and play sports as often as possible I do know I cannot be described as “healthy.” Need to quit smoking. Need to eat better. Joined a gym not long ago and have been doing weights and cardio. I figured now might as well be a good time as ever to give PE a legitimate shot.
In the past I tried jelqing in showers but usually gave up about a week into it, not because of lack of results but of time constraints or boredom. As I turn over a new leaf in my life I think I’m ready to commit to the process. When I take my pants off now I get grins from the girls. There’s a part of me that wants that “WOW” factor from them to come out. It’s totally selfish but, hey, if it’s what I want it’s what I want.
My goals will be modest. My unit is alright but on my big body it looks smaller than I’d like it. I know a lot of people aim for 8x6 or more but that’s not what I need. 7 x 5.5 would fit me perfectly. I also know that some men make huge gains quickly while others struggle for each eighth-inch. I also accept this. Again, if it doesn’t work out and I go nowhere that’s cool. I don’t need to do it. I want to. And now I’ll give it a fair shake.
Thanks for reading. I’ve looked into the newbie routine and that’s where I’ll start. Any and all comments and suggestions are welcome. Will upload pics and exact measurements in the upcoming days. Looking forward to joining this growing community lol
Call me Teach.