Newbie in Need of Support

Whats going on fellas.. Well I’ve come across this website before but, I’m just now getting involved.. My story goes like this: I met my current wife 3 or so years ago, and within the dating conversation, we began talking about previous guys.. So the guy before me she said, ” .must have been two-inches bigger” and “.it hurt but it felt good”. And there were other signs the indicated that she was/is a size queen. After which I started to notice the way she looks at me sometimes shunning my size, and also she just seems bored as hell when it comes time for sex. And she rarely orgasms from penetration alone. I myself know that he must have been quite a guy because, honestly, she’s loose as crap. Needless to say, it’s a pain to me and, along with other issues, I am considering divorce. But before I go that far. I want to try PE to see if I can gain that 2+” to see if that will help at least our sexual relationship.. So I guess, I’m asking for support from the individuals on this site that have the same goals as I do.

Mr. Grumpy

Hi grumpy. This stuff does work. While 2 inches is certainly possible, plenty of guys never achieve that large an increase. Plus most guys that do gain 2+”s invest years in the process. Just so you know.

I would say that 99% of the guys that are dedicated and have an open ended time table will gain 1+”s. Beyond that? Who can say. And some guys do get lucky and respond very well and very fast.

I recently bought an All Day Stretcher.. Do these things even work? If so, if I couple it with the newbie routine will the results come any quicker?

No wonder you call yourself Mr Grumpy. Good luck with PE and all the issues.

Whoah whoah whoah there buddy pump the brakes for a second there

If your relationship is on the rocks enough that the thought of divorce has entered your mind, then you could gain three inches on your cock tomorrow and it wouldn’t fix your problems.

And you know you have to live with the woman for years while you are growing, if you grow like you want to.

Maybe you should evaluate your life and relationship a little more before you start spending all those hours on PE, and maybe that is time you should be spending on other things, like the wife?

All I am saying is that I have been with girls for whom I was their largest - and it didn’t work out. Penis size is like a thin thin layer of frosting on a big cake. It sure ain’t going to make a shit cake taste good.

All the best and all the power to you man, just think about it please.

Whats your current size Mr grumpy and is it purely sexual where things are not so great? Just remember she Married you! So I can assume she loves you as long as you aren’t loaded and she’s a gold digger. If she was a size queen she would of been with the other guy or something. You can by the sounds of it make her orgasm with oral or other than just penetration. PE does work, stay positive and most of all if you’re going to endeavour on this journey do it for yourself.

Great advice there from Chunk.

Something I would like to say though is that the act of sex produces a hormone called oxytocin. This hormone is often called the bonding hormone. In otherwords, the better the sex (and the more sex) the more you will feel attached to each other. Like Chunk said though, sex is only one part of the equation. Try to work on the other stuff to.

I don’t want to ruffle any feathers, but I think that some of the mods and other members on here are overly pessimistic. I strongly believe that ANYONE who puts in the time can gain 2 inches. It depends on how much you want it.

Chunk is right Mr.Grumpy.

A relationship cannot be measured just by sexual pleasure. It’s far more greater than that. You cannot just throw away all the things that you and your wife went through; the happy, sad, exciting, and painful moments you spent together just because you think your not pleasuring your wife sexually.

Marriage is all about sticking together and helping each other for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, and despite all your differences. I am sure that your wife understands you and is contented with you. I not, she would have not married you.

All I’m saying is that, if your not contented with your penis, you can do PE, but if your ground or reason for you to think of divorce is the size of your penis, my friend, please think again.

Grumpy I see where you are coming from. My ex was like this and cheated and had the nerve to mention the other man’s dick. I am still struggling with this issues. Hence why I am here. You have to look at the picture, what are the other issues surrounding you’re thoughts of divorce? Sex is very important and I understand the MANly issue of the penis size thing you are going through.

Just go someplace where you can have a clear head, pro’s and con’s and see where the list ends up. Then and only then Sir, should you think about divorce. But, in the mean time get a big meaty cock!

Grumpy. I don`t know who brought up the other guy`s size, but….in the future, never even begin to have such a conversation.

Take some responsibility for the fact that she got to the size of his dick. No means no, and telling her that you aren`t interested in such detailes tell her where your boundaries lie.

In some way you managed to set yourself up for the feeling you are experiencing.

There are some people who can chat all day about thier partner`s other partners, but here`s the important thing; you can`t. The information haunts you.

Have the conversation with your wife. Tell her how much that knowledge hurt and accept responsibility for reacting that way, but ask her to help you get past the issue and learn more about her in the process.

And about you satisfying her; make that part of your conversation also. Tell her how important it is for you to satisfy her and where her head is at about your sex life.

A good marriage is based on many things. loyalty, trust, honesty and finding intimacy often. If you feel you are lacking in some of those areas then ask her what can be done.

You guys are the experts on your relationship and can find a way to make it better if you want.

Wise words.

Grumpy did you ask her about it or did she mention it?

I like Chunk’s posts.